Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
«Wonderful act by dad!» The man’s body was covered with tattoos, but he removed them for the sake of his daughter
«From a monster to a handsome man!»
He removed tattoos, see the result here
Famous Australian blogger Ethan Modboy Bramble surprised his fans when he covered his entire body with tattoos. The 24-year-old is impossible to miss due to the fact that 95% of his body is covered in tattoos, he has a cut tongue, cropped ears, black eyelids, flared nostrils, a sewn-in belly button and black eyeballs.
When we look at this man, it immediately seems to us that he will not stop doing plastic surgery to make changes to his body. But fortunately, he changed his mind when his daughter was born into his family.
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After the birth of his baby, he made a serious decision to do everything to bring his body as close as possible to its natural appearance. Despite the fact that all the experiments were expensive and caused him pain, he still decided to remove the tattoos.
Now a famous blogger undergoes procedures to look like a normal person. Every day brighter spots appear on his body. The young father showed what he looked like before and now.
What do you think about a caring father? Share your views in the comments section.
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