Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
If you can guess, you’re too good
Some riddles challenge your logic, while others test how quickly you can make connections between images and words. The visual puzzle above falls into the second category, presenting a simple yet tricky brain teaser. If you can figure it out within five seconds, you’re definitely sharp!
Let’s break down the clues, explore common mistakes, and guide you through solving this clever riddle.
What Do You See in the Puzzle?
The image consists of two main elements:
- A water droplet 💧
- A white t-shirt 👕
At first glance, these seem unrelated, but together, they hint at the name of a country. The challenge is simple: can you decipher it?
Common Mistakes People Make
Before we reveal the answer, let’s discuss a few common mistakes that make this puzzle tricky:
- Overcomplicating the Clues – Some people try to analyze the meaning of the objects too deeply, looking for complex wordplay when the answer is actually straightforward.
- Ignoring Phonetics – The key to solving this riddle lies in how the words sound, rather than what they literally represent.
- Thinking in Literal Terms – Instead of seeing the water droplet and t-shirt as direct objects, it’s important to break them down into the sounds they represent.
Now, let’s solve this step by step.
Video : Guess the Country by its Scrambled Name
Step-by-Step Guide to Solving the Riddle
Step 1: Breaking Down the First Symbol – The Water Droplet
A droplet of water can be linked to the word “Thai”. In some contexts, “Thai” is associated with water, such as in traditional Thai culture where water festivals like Songkran play a significant role.
However, the most important clue here is phonetics. The word “Thai” sounds like the beginning of the name of a well-known country.
Step 2: Decoding the Second Symbol – The T-Shirt
A t-shirt is a piece of clothing, but in this case, we focus on how it sounds.
- The word “shirt” doesn’t quite fit, but if we shorten it to just “T”, it leads us in the right direction.
- Instead, the “land” part in “t-shirt” is what we need to focus on.
- Many countries end in “land” (e.g., Finland, Ireland, and of course, the correct answer: Thailand).
Step 3: Combining the Clues
Now that we have:
- Thai from the water droplet
- Land from the t-shirt
We get Thailand! 
Why This Riddle Is So Clever
This puzzle is a great example of visual and phonetic wordplay. Instead of relying on direct translations or meanings, it challenges the brain to think in sounds and combine simple clues to form a more complex answer.
It’s also effective because it uses common objects in an unexpected way, making it fun and engaging for all ages.
Video : Can You Guess the Country by Emoji? 🌎🚩
How Quickly Did You Solve It?
If you guessed Thailand within five seconds, congratulations! You have a sharp eye for patterns and quick thinking skills. If it took you longer, don’t worry—this puzzle tricks a lot of people because it requires thinking outside the box.
Share the Fun!
Now that you know the answer, challenge your friends and family! Send them the image and see how long it takes them to figure it out.
Leave a comment with how quickly you solved it, and let us know if you want more fun riddles like this! Who knows? Maybe you’re a puzzle-solving genius in the making!
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