Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
“Is She Pregnant?” Selena Gomez Causes a Wave of Controversy After Appearing in a Tight Dress
Selena Gomez made a dazzling appearance at the 75th Primetime Emmy Awards, bringing along her boyfriend Benny Blanco as her date. The 31-year-old singer looked absolutely fabulous in a gorgeous sheer dress. However, some people criticized her outfit, making comments about her body and even speculating whether she might be expecting.
450,000 sequins
Selena Gomez stole the spotlight at the event with her stunning outfit. She wore a captivating sheer gown by Oscar de la Renta, covered in intricate black floral details and a whopping 450,000 sequins. The dress was designed to reveal a subtle hint of skin, adding a touch of glamour to the ensemble with a beautiful Tiffany & Co. necklace.
Selena Gomez attended the event with her 35-year-old boyfriend, Benny Blanco, who is a record producer and actor. Benny looked stylish in a sharp outfit, wearing a long navy coat over a black silk button-up shirt and gray slacks. The couple shared a sweet moment during their walk, with Selena affectionately placing her hand on Benny’s shoulder.
According to an insider, Selena is in a great place and truly enjoying her relationship with Benny Blanco. The source emphasized that she appears to be genuinely happy and engaged, expressing that Selena is embracing a positive phase, perhaps influenced by her connection with Benny or simply reflecting on her current personal and professional state.
Her body became the main topic of discussion.
As everyone admired her vibrant appearance on the red carpet, a few online voices started guessing if she could be pregnant. Even though the star did not indicate a pregnancy, some presumed her curvier and fuller look might suggest otherwise, with one comment stating, “She’s about 4 sizes up”.
However, a supportive fan chimed in, clarifying that her fuller figure could be attributed to her health condition and medication. As the pictures from the event made their way onto social media, fans swiftly celebrated the star’s gorgeous look, flooding her with compliments like “stunning” and “looks amazing.” One supporter expressed, “Love her; she looks awesome and happy. Good for her.”
Negative comments don’t bother her.
Last year, during the Golden Globes, online comments started circulating about her weight gain. Responding to these remarks, Gomez took to Instagram Live with her sister, Gracie, by her side. She explained, “I’m a little bit big right now because I enjoyed myself during the holidays.” Then Gomez added, “But we don’t care,” and both sisters burst into laughter.
By light-heartedly dismissing these comments, Gomez not only set a positive example for her younger sister but also for countless girls and women worldwide. She emphasized that embracing your body and feeling confident, regardless of size, is what truly matters. After all, the key is self-love, which radiates from the inside out.
Selena recently shared that she’s considering wrapping up her music career soon. In this article, we delve into the reasons behind her decision and explore what might be prompting this potential shift in her career path.
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