We all go through life knowing that someday we won’t be here forever. I’m not afraid of dying and see it as a natural part of life. But what does worry me is growing old and not being able to take care of myself. The idea of relying on a hospice nurse makes me a bit anxious.
The thought of needing help with everything, being unable to do simple things on my own, and forgetting my loved ones’ names scares me. It’s not the kind of life I’d want. This fear reminds me of Maria, a music teacher who was cared for by a hospice nurse in 2016.
One night, as I was leaving at the end of my shift, I said ‘Goodnight, Irene.’ Then I asked her if she knew the song ‘Goodnight, Irene,’ and I sang a little bit of it. She looked at me and smiled,” Berg said. “For someone who didn’t usually talk much with the nurses, that smile meant a lot, and I knew I had made a connection with her.”As Rosipajla’s health got worse, it was decided to move her from the hospital to hospice care. “The last time I took care of Irene, I wanted to do something kind for her and her family, so I brought my guitar,” said Berg, who had studied music in college. “I sang ‘Goodnight, Irene,’ and it was a really special moment. I was nervous about singing in front of someone, but when I started playing and singing, she was so focused, and her family was really touched.”
Michelle Naypauer, Irene Rosipajla’s daughter-in-law who saw her as a mother, was in the room and moved to tears. “Irene was a wonderful person who treated me like a daughter,” Naypauer said. “In the last few months, Irene was in and out of the hospital, and we got to know Annamarie well.”
“Before the song, Annamarie had already done some great things. Our middle son, Eric, got married in August, and Annamarie helped set up FaceTime so Mom could be at the reception bridal table. It was beautiful,” Naypauer shared.
Naypauer, who recorded Annamarie singing to Irene, wanted to capture the special moment to share with the family. “There were so many tears, and it was just so beautiful,” she said. The song was a heartfelt farewell to Irene, who passed away a few weeks later at home, surrounded by her family.
Watch Joshua sing to Maria while she was in his carehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGFRHyt1sFQ
1. “Maria is dying. Then carer takes something out of his pocket and fulfills her last wish..” Newsner. Norhan Elhakeem. October 26, 2017
2. “Nurse sings to patient moving to hospice care in touching moment.” ABC News. Haley Yamada. March 2, 2020.
Bruce Willis: A Remarkable Life
Fast forward to the present, and there’s a renewed interest in Bruce Willis’s career, specifically his iconic role in the 80s TV show “Moonlighting.” The show, also known as “Maddie & David,” has made a comeback on a streaming platform, thrilling fans worldwide. Glenn Gordon Caron, the creator of the series and a close friend of Willis, shared some touching insights about their recent interactions.
Glenn revealed that he has seen Willis’s health decline rapidly. Despite this, Willis remains enthusiastic about the comeback of “Moonlighting.” Glenn confessed that he tries to maintain regular contact with his dear friend and his family, acknowledging the significant impact the illness has had on Willis’s life.
Although Bruce Willis’s condition has affected his ability to communicate verbally, Glenn acknowledges that the essence of Willis remains intact. Glenn marvels at Willis’s recognition when they meet and describes him as a truly remarkable individual. Though he may have lost some linguistic abilities, Glenn emphasizes the enduring spirit of Bruce Willis.
In an interview with the New York Post, Glenn shared his admiration for his friend, highlighting the immense joy for life that Willis possessed. Each day brought enthusiasm and a zest for living to the fullest. It is this spirit that captivated those fortunate enough to spend time with him.
A Journey Filled with Love and Compassion
Bruce Willis’s wife, Emma Heming Willis, has been a pillar of strength throughout his battle with illness. In a recent appearance on the Today show, she bravely discussed the impact of dementia, both on the person diagnosed and their loved ones. Emma, who has two daughters with Bruce, emphasized that receiving a dementia diagnosis is a challenging experience for the entire family.
Emma admits that uncertainty clouds Bruce’s awareness of his illness. However, she finds solace in being the primary caregiver and having a comprehensive understanding of the disease. While it is undoubtedly painful, Emma sees it as both a blessing and a curse – a way to navigate this difficult journey alongside her husband.
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