These days, young parents have tons of information about raising kids. There are books, websites, and experts offering advice on every little thing. They can even get consultations from specialists whenever they need. But our own parents didn’t have all that. They raised us based on what they knew and what they learned from their own parents. So sometimes, the way we were brought up can seem really different from what we’re told is best now.
1. Early marriage and parenthood go without saying.
In earlier generations, there was often pressure on young adults to marry and start a family at a relatively young age, and to have more than one child a couple of years after the start of the family. Today, there is more emphasis on personal and career development before settling down. And moreover some researches show that early marriage can lead to some family problems, like dissatisfaction with married life, experience of having lots of responsibility, lack of independence in family life.
2. A college education is an indicator of your status.
«You can’t find a good job without going to college!» Many people must have heard this when they were teenagers. And lots of us believed this, but now don’t even know where our college diploma is. More than 41% of people that finished college have jobs that don’t require this kind of education. Today, employers are more interested in the practical skills of their employees rather than their qualifications.
When you finish school, it may be wise to take a gap year to understand what you really want to do and decide if you actually need a college education.
3. Classes are good for kids’ development — the more, the better!
A very tight schedule can exhaust children, which is obviously not good at all.
Famous American teacher Douglas Haddad recommends that parents slow down and give their children time to discover their own talents, and then decide if they need additional forms of education.
4. Being plump is healthy.
Children that always finished their meals were praised, and being plump was believed to be healthy. But bad eating habits formed in childhood often result in weight problems and eating disorders.
5. Money can’t buy happiness.
We wish this were true, but life says otherwise: money can make you happier, no matter what other people say.
Parents should teach their children the basics of budgeting. This will help kids form the right habits in money management and reach financial success in their adult lives.
6. Not standing out from the crowd means being good.
Traditional parenting often enforced strict dress codes and grooming expectations, particularly regarding modesty and conformity to societal norms. This might puzzle us today as modern parenting encourages children to express themselves through their clothing, appearance and let them express their emotions fully.
7. Older children are responsible for younger ones.
Very often, older children had to spend a lot of time taking care of younger ones. Parents had to work a lot and there was no other choice. But older kids had to sacrifice their time with friends and hobbies for the needs of their younger siblings.
Psychologists say that sometimes when kids have to perform the duties of parents, it may lead to psychological problems: they might not want to have their own children.
8. Women are housewives and men are breadwinners.
In recent decades, gender roles are not as important anymore. Women today can build successful careers and men can go on paternity leave and manage things around the house.
9. There’s nothing more shameful for a woman than having children without a husband.
Wrong, again. Today, there’s nothing surprising about single mothers and they’re not frowned upon as they were 30 years ago. Very often, having a child without a husband is an informed decision made by a woman. More than that, in the past 30 years, the number of single fathers has increased 1.5 times.
10. Storks deliver babies.
Some topics were never discussed — like when kids asked where babies came from, parents often said that they were delivered by a stork. Because of this, young people would often get into their first relationship without any knowledge of their bodies. They only based things off of the advice they received from their friends and bits of information from books and films. All these experiences could lead to bad consequences, including problems with both physical and mental health.
11. Children should be seen and not heard.
In the past, children were often expected to remain quiet and obedient in the presence of adults. Modern parenting emphasizes the importance of children expressing themselves and their opinions, because self-expression is a vital component of a young individual’s growth. The development of self-esteem and confidence in children is frequently nurtured by their capacity to express their feelings with clarity and authenticity.
Every parent has their own way of raising children. Just like how every family has its own special traditions, parents have rules they think are best for their kids. Sometimes, famous people, like celebrities, also share their ideas about parenting. They might talk about what works for them and their families. But in the end, each parent decides what’s right for their own children, based on love and what they believe is best.
Nick Nolte: Still Charming and Gorgeous at 82
On February 8, 2023, legendary actor Nick Nolte will turn 82. Nolte has won over audiences with his outstanding performances on stage and screen since his humble beginnings in Omaha, Nebraska. Despite possibly aging since his heartthrob days in the 1970s, he is still as endearing and attractive as ever.
The TV miniseries Rich Man, Poor Man (1976), in which Nolte made his breakthrough as “Tom/Tommy Jordache,” was the catalyst for the rest of his career. His extraordinary capacity to assume different personas contributed to his meteoric rise to fame in Hollywood, not just his good looks. Without a doubt, he is one of the most adaptable actors we are aware of.
Nolte has won numerous honors over the course of his illustrious career, including the Golden Globe Award for Best Actor – Motion Picture Drama in 1991. His outstanding performances in movies like The Prince of Tides, Affliction, and Warrior also earned him nominations for Academy Awards.
Nolte was hailed as the ideal American hero during the 1970s, and People magazine even named him the Sexiest Man Alive. Nolte was able to perfectly embody the essence of a young man weighing around 150 pounds in his role as Tommy Jordache.
In 1992, when he co-starred with Eddie Murphy in the ground-breaking action comedy 48 Hours, Nolte’s career experienced a meteoric rise. It was the first time black and white characters had to criticize one another on screen, and the movie not only showed off their amazing chemistry but also tackled significant societal issues. In his post-Civil Rights era analysis of the movie, Nolte recognized the importance of the movie.
There have been ups and downs in Nick Nolte’s personal life. Currently wed to Clytie Lane after three divorces, he has had three wives. Nolte’s talents have occasionally been overshadowed over the years by his wild behavior, as evidenced by his popular 2002 mug shot. He has struggled and been taken into custody multiple times.
However, Nolte found comfort and grit in his pursuit of sobriety. He has been able to maintain his sobriety for a long time after seeking professional assistance. Nolte freely acknowledges that she has turned to alcohol as a coping mechanism for a variety of problems, including failed relationships, failed projects, and the isolation and loneliness that frequently come with celebrity status.
Brawley Nolte and Sophia Lane Nolte, both actors, are Nolte’s proud children. Sophia had the chance to collaborate with her father on the movie Honey in the Head, in which she played his granddaughter. When talking about his kids, Nolte emphasizes his special relationship with Sophia and his son’s desire to become a doctor.
Nick Nolte, 82, has undoubtedly aged and his appearance has changed. Nevertheless, his endearing charisma and undeniable attractiveness remain. Nolte sees getting older as just another great adventure, accepting it with grace. He cherishes the chance to keep moving forward and pursuing new experiences and believes in fighting all the way to the end.
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