One day, Danielle Hutchinson, who weighed 325 pounds, realized that her weight was keeping her and her critically ill four-year-old daughter from boarding the rescue chopper.This Norwich, Connecticut, resident, 32, has struggled with weight all of her life.She was forbidden from roller coasters and needed an extra belt whenever she flew.However, her weight started to pose a serious threat to her health in December 2022.
Neve, her daughter, had a serious asthma attack and needed to be airlifted to a specialized hospital immediately.Danielle’s weight unfortunately proved to be a safety hazard, and she was forced to travel apart from her daughter by medical specialists.
For Danielle, it was this encounter that marked a sea change.In a few of weeks, she began taking injections for weight loss and drastically altered her diet.She stuck to her diet and exercise routine for the next year and lost an amazing 200 pounds.Danielle weighs only 110 pounds now and is in awe of her good fortune.She claims, “I’ve fought obesity for nearly my whole adult life and have always prioritized my kids.”
However, missing out on riding the chopper with my daughter served as a wake-up call. I came to the realization that I had to take care of myself if I wanted to be there for my kids. Danielle is up against a new obstacle despite her success: having almost five kilograms of extra skin removed from her tummy.
I Told My Friend She Married a Useless Man, and Now She Hates Me
I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.
I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).
I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).
Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.
My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.
It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.
She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….
I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.
Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.
Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.
She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.
I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.
Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.
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