Psychologists Explain Things We All See in Dreams, and It’s Better Not to Ignore Them

Humankind has been trying to solve the mystery of dreams for as long as they’ve existed. Today there is even a special discipline in the study of dreams called oneirology. Those who prefer the esoteric side of things over science love to interpret their dreams according to various dream books and believe that they can predict the future. But psychologists think that dreams accurately reflect our current condition and that our subconscious tries to tell us something important via dreams from time to time.

We at Bright Side have learned that there are dreams that are common for all of us. Each of us sees these types of dreams every now and then. These dreams are caused by our ancient instincts, a cultural code, the experience of our ancestors, and personal experience. A psychologist and an expert in the field of dreams, Patricia Garfield, calls them “universal dreams” and says, “Like a hearty stew that is rich with local produce, the universal dreams differ among different peoples, but they are all nourishing variants of the same wholesome meal. They are as old as humanity and as widespread as our globe.”

1. Falling

In adulthood, we see falling more often than flying. According to the psychologist Ian Wallace, a dream about falling symbolizes the fear of losing control. You can’t control something in your life anymore because some drastic changes that you were not ready for took place in your life. Think about what sphere of life (work, relationships, finances, health, etc.) you feel most suppressed or vulnerable in as well as the ways to correct it.

Some scientists explain dreams about falling with simple physiology. As the body is sinking into sleep, the nerve system starts to calm down, your blood pressure and heart rate decrease and your falling asleep brain (especially if it was overwhelmed during the day) can perceive this physiological change as danger or an approaching death and therefore, makes you wake up suddenly.

The opposite version of this dream is flying which signifies freeing oneself from some hard burden and getting the desirable freedom.

2. Teeth that fall out and injuries

Our subconscious interprets teeth as an indicator of strength, and an ability to “bite off” a piece of the world. “Perhaps, you have recently been feeling unarmed and helpless in the real world,” Penney Peirce explains.

Patricia Garfield, another expert who’s studied dreams for many years, connects dreams about teeth falling out with hidden anger. As a rule, when we suppress anger, we clench our jaw, and our teeth might start to creak and grind. This dream might be signaling that it’s high time to get rid of negative feelings.

We often have dreams where someone close to us is wounded or sick. Those dreams cause consternation; however, from psychology’s point of view, things are not that bad. It’s simply our fears of the future and inevitable changes with those close to us. If you see your own death, it means that some part of you is dying and staying in the past to give space to something new.

“Opposite” dreams about birth and recovery usually appear when something new is taking place in a person’s life (like a new job or project) and symbolize a new experience.

3. Failure at an exam or public performance

You’re about to take an exam and suddenly realize that you don’t remember anything or you can’t say a word when standing in front of a big crowd. These dreams might be experienced not only by students and school kids but also by people who have graduated a long time ago. It’s likely that you had some stress shortly before going to sleep or was extremely worried about something. In this case, it’s better to take a short break and relax.

4. Being chased or persecuted

Such dreams have several different meanings. An expert in the field of dreams named Lauri Loewenberg says, “People that tend to avoid conflict, who are afraid of ruffling feathers or causing issues will have the recurring dream of being chased.”

Pay attention to the thing chasing you — they symbolize an unpleasant feeling or situation that you try not to think about in real life. It can be debt or addiction. Are you chased by a person you know? Think about what or who you associate this person with. They might indicate some other person or even a part of your personality that you don’t want to admit (like a hidden talent or aspiration) in your dream.

There’s also a theory saying that dreams about running away from someone are simply the echoes of primitive instincts that are in our genes thanks to our ancestors. All because they were constantly running from predators.

5. Inappropriate clothes or an absence of any

In your dream, you turn up in a public place wearing inappropriate clothes or not wearing anything at all. In this situation, it’s important to pay attention to the feelings you encountered in your dream. These dreams are usually followed by a feeling of shame and embarrassment.

Psychologist Ian Wallace notes, “It means that you feel vulnerable at your new job or in your new relationship and are afraid that others will learn about your weaknesses and disadvantages.” However, if you don’t feel any shame in your dream but instead feel proud of yourself, the dream has the opposite meaning. Perhaps you feel a lack of recognition and admiration and would like others to see your talents as well as your personality more.

6. A catastrophe or an apocalypse

We’ve all dreamed about natural or man-made disasters where we’re scared for our own lives and the lives of those close to us. These dreams might indicate personal problems that have gotten out of control or are a result of feeling threatened by something. Of course, constant messages in the media about catastrophes and terrorist acts worsen the situation. As a result, we start feeling vulnerable in the modern world.

Sometimes, when having a nightmare, we try to shout out loud but feel that our voice has left us, which causes an even bigger fear. Psychologists explain it as sleep paralysis. During the last phase of sleep, when we have dreams, our brain purposefully paralyzes the body so that we can lie still and not “live” in our sleep by running, jumping, etc. People who have sleep paralysis usually wake up before the end of the last phase and enter a state between sleep and reality for a short period. This can be felt as an inability to move, speak, and, in some cases, breathe.

7. Faulty equipment or vehicles

You try to use some gadget or device, and it breaks right away. For example, your phone stops working, and you can’t call anyone. According to Patricia Garfield, these dreams are more often experienced by women and symbolize worries about relationships or losing an emotional connection with someone.

Dreams in which you’re trying to operate a vehicle that doesn’t work properly or breaks down are in the same category. You are likely missing support and can’t cope with a difficult life situation by yourself.

8. Pregnancy

As strange as it might sound, it’s not only women who can have dreams about pregnancy. A psychologist name David Bedrick says, “Pregnancy symbolizes something new growing inside us.” You subconsciously dream about “giving birth” to a new fascinating creative project. It can be anything from writing a book to repairing a house. It’s time to set a goal and show the world how you can take on this new role.

If you’re not pregnant in real life, you may be seeking fulfillment after having such a dream.

9. Being late

Dreams that have you running after a departing train or running late for an important meeting can occur quite often. According to a dream expert, Michael R. Olsen, they can symbolize the fear of missing out on something very important in your relationships or in the upbringing of your child, for example. If you’re constantly overwhelmed and don’t have much time to accomplish things in real life, your subconscious is signaling that it’s time for you to reconsider your schedule and free up time for really important things.

10. An unknown room

Dreams about new rooms are about self-knowledge. If you find yourself in an unknown house in your dream, it means that you don’t know yourself well and try to neglect some sides of your character. A separate unfamiliar room symbolizes that you have a hidden talent, skill, or opportunity that you don’t use.

A psychotherapist named Eddie Traversa thinks that we subconsciously associate some rooms with certain processes. A kitchen is a place where products get transformed into a finished dish which means that you’re currently going through some inner changes. A bathroom is a symbol of freeing oneself from unnecessary baggage. It might symbolize that it’s time to get rid of something that is not needed any longer. A bathroom is a symbol of cleansing and it means that you feel the necessity to clarify things or see them in a different light. A bedroom signifies the things that worry you in your romantic relationship.

Have you ever experienced any of these dreams or do you usually see something different? Please tell us about it in the comments!

Unlocking the World’s Greatest Mysteries

The world is an enthralling place full of mysterious things that never cease to amaze us with their appearance and, of course, their mysterious uses. Ultimately, not all issues can be resolved with a quick Google search, particularly if you’re not sure exactly what you’re looking for.

There are many mysteries in the world every day that pique our interest and compel us to solve. We have access to online communities of investigators that share our enthusiasm for delving into these mysteries, all thanks to the power of the internet. Together, we can delve deeper into untold tales and unearth surprising facts as we explore the world’s amazing tapestry. The quest for knowledge has crossed geographical boundaries, putting a multitude of knowledge and experience at our disposal.

But amid the amazement and astonishment, a common reality surfaces: most of the time, things are not as remarkable as they initially appear to be. These are six intriguing discoveries that raised questions and yielded surprising revelations.

Is It Trash or Something Else?

In their rubbish drawer, an original poster discovered an enigmatic item. They referred to it as a “scoopy doodad” and looked to the internet for support and guidance. It was described as being incredibly heavy, having no markings, and having a little hole on top, raising the question, “What could it be?”

Netizens found that the response was surprising. What appeared to be an object was actually the nozzle of a vintage Sunbeam Mixmaster juicer attachment. A little sieve to remove pulp was attached to the wire portion.

5. A Found Old Cabinet

One user found an object in an antique cabinet that was completely composed of glass and had small holes running the length of it. They posted a picture of it online, curious about its intended use, and hoped for answers.

Many individuals quickly realized that a flower frog was the solution. This glass item served as a vase support for flower arrangements. Foam and gels had rendered it obsolete.

4. A Bulky Glass Item

A photo of a hefty glass object with a narrow hole on top and no markings was published on Reddit by another user. They pondered over its identification and looked for explanations.

An oil candle turned out to be the unexpected solution, as one astute netizen discovered. Who would have thought?

3. The Mysterious Item Covered in a Bedroom Drawer

A Reddit member discovered an odd item with a suede or soft leather bottom while searching through their bedroom drawer. Perplexed, they looked to the internet community for clarification.

Many were surprised to learn that the solution was a nail buffer. The original poster admitted to not taking good care of their nails and was shocked to learn this.

2. What’s Underneath Those Flooring?

A user shared a picture of a silver-colored device that looked like an old-fashioned scissor and questioned what it was used for. It was concealed beneath the floorboards of a house built in the 1800s.

An interesting response was given by a helpful netizen: it was used to take the top off of soft-boiled eggs. The accuracy of the response was promptly confirmed by another user.

1. An Improbable Hotel Room Discover

One visitor found a vertical slot inside their bedside table while staying at a hotel. Their goal intrigued them, so they looked to the internet community for solutions.

It turns out that the purpose of the slot was to hold a tablet or laptop while it charged overnight. It wouldn’t take up much space on the nightstand in this manner. A user who had asked about it at their own hotel verified the response. The initial poster immediately acknowledged how similar the hotel was to the one in Philadelphia.

The internet has given us the ability to collaborate and decipher the mysteries concealed behind seemingly commonplace objects in a world full of riddles. A few clicks away, there’s always something waiting to be discovered. So embrace your curiosity and explore the mysterious wonders all around you.

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