Sadie and Jarvis Sampson tried for years to have a baby, using every method they could think of. They eventually accepted that they might only ever be an aunt and uncle. Then, one day, they got a text that changed their lives completely.
The couple had been trying to get pregnant since they got married in January 2018, but when it didn’t happen on its own, they tried everything else.
“We used ovulation tests, took prenatal vitamins, tracked cycles with apps, and used fertility monitors,” the Houston mom told Love What Matters.
“We even tried advice from friends, family, and strangers. For 14 months, we tried, prayed, and waited. Month after month, it was always a negative pregnancy test. It seemed like we might need help to conceive, so we even talked to doctors about it.”
Doctors didn’t offer much help to the couple. They mostly told Sadie to lose weight to improve her chances of getting pregnant. With no other advice, she had gastric surgery and lost 28 pounds.
Sadie’s OBGYN was excited about the weight loss and praised her for it.
“She told me that if I wasn’t pregnant within six months, she would refer me to a fertility specialist because she couldn’t prescribe fertility medication herself,” Sadie said. “I was thrilled! We finally got a positive step forward, even if it wasn’t immediate. We were excited about the progress.”
Unfortunately, the couple didn’t get pregnant after Sadie lost the weight, and they felt like they were back where they started.
“I always felt like I was meant to be a mother,” Sadie said. “Even though my surgeon warned me that I’d be very fertile after the surgery, I still wasn’t getting pregnant. So, we gave up and accepted that we might just be aunt and uncle to our nieces and godparents to our goddaughters.”
Just when the couple had decided to stop trying to have a baby, Sadie got a text from a friend asking if they would think about fostering a baby from a couple she knew.
At first, the couple was hesitant because they were told by a caseworker to take care of the baby while the birth mom was getting treatment. They worried they might get too attached. But then, the situation changed.
“The birth mom has decided she wants you to adopt the baby instead,” the caseworker said.
Sadie remembered saying, “‘Holy crap!!’ out loud when she found out she was going to be a mom.
“We went from having no kids to possibly fostering one, to suddenly being told, ‘You’re going to be parents!’ I was still in shock as I listened to the caseworker. I hung up and called my husband, shouting, ‘Babe!! They want us to adopt the baby! We’re going to be parents!’ He said, ‘Wait! REALLY?! I thought they just wanted us to foster him!’ I told him, ‘Nope! They want us to be his mom and dad.’”
The couple spent the weekend trying to take in the shocking news and getting ready, just in case the birth mom changed her mind.
By Monday, they were not only told that the birth mom still wanted them to adopt the baby, but she also wanted to do an independent adoption and was ready to sign the papers that day.
Their baby boy was born at just 33 weeks, which is seven weeks early. He weighed 4 lbs. 5 oz. “He was so tiny, he literally fit in one of my husband’s hands,” Sadie wrote.
“He was wrapped in a white blanket with pink and blue stripes,” Sadie said. “He had a small tube coming out of his nose because he couldn’t eat on his own since he was born early. But he was so cute!!!”
The couple shared their news on social media and were encouraged to create a registry. They listed 72 items, and within just three days, 55 of them were already bought for them.
Ezra Lee’s adoption was finalized in October 2020, and the couple had adorable family photos taken, all wearing t-shirts that said, “Families don’t have to match.”
In 2021, Sadie and Jarvis became parents to twin girls, Journee and Destinee, through embryo donation. True to their family motto, “Families don’t have to match,” the Black couple now has three white children – a boy and two girls.
For anyone who might judge their beautiful family, they have just one response: their family is built on the strongest foundation ever – love.
At 71, Roseanne Barr debuts new pixie haircut, sparking a stir among fans
Roseanne Barr, who took to social media to show off a hairstyle that sparked a variety of reactions from her fan base, has become the latest celebrity to try out a completely new look.
Though not particularly original, the idea of celebrities experimenting with their looks and drawing attention is nevertheless appealing. On the other hand, many find fascination and rumors in the constantly shifting fashion choices of A-list celebrities, so it’s not surprise that Roseanne Barr’s new pixie cut sparked a lot of conversation.
The 71-year-old Barr used Instagram to share photos of her new hairstyle, a textured pixie cut in place of her long, gray hair, along with the message “Cut.”
It should come as no surprise that the comedian and actress received a lot of attention from her post, as most of the comments were positive.
“Wow, you look hotter and younger!” only one person wrote.
“I love it,” commented someone else. My age is the same as yours. Although I’ve always had long hair, I’ve been considering cutting it off recently. Seeing how attractive you are, I might actually do it.
Gorgeous Roseanne! Continue rousing folks from sleep! Third: “We love you so much.”
Comments like “Looks incredible Roseanne!” were made by others. and “I adore the hair!”
According to sources, Andre Walker, a hairstylist who also works with TV legend Oprah Winfrey and actress Halle Berry, is responsible for Barr’s makeover.
Barr became a global celebrity in the late 1980s after starring in the ABC series Roseanne as Roseanne Conner. The Cosby Show producers intended to create a “no-perks family comedy,” which gave rise to the concept for the well-known show.
Twenty-one million homes watched the first episode of Roseanne when it debuted in 1998, making it the biggest premiere of the year. After airing for ten seasons, Roseanne was a huge hit overall. Barr also took home multiple honors, including a Golden Globe and an Emmy.
More recently, Barr faced a major blow when her show was canceled due to a tweet that compared Valerie Jarrett, the advisor to former President Barack Obama, to an ape.
Barr expressed sorrow for the error and blamed the unsuitable joke on her poor health and emotional instability, despite her outspoken support of the former president Donald Trump, according to People. She withdrew from the public eye for a few weeks afterward. In response to the criticism, Barr expressed regret in public.
Nevertheless, the outcry led to the cancellation of Roseanne’s planned return, and in the background, she experienced a profound personal and professional metamorphosis.
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