Anne Hegerty, known from The Chase, shared that her biggest fear about dating is having a man invade her personal space.
The quizzer, who was diagnosed with autism at 45, opened up about her challenges, mentioning a time when she unplugged her phone to stop a boyfriend from contacting her.
At The Paul Strank Roofing Charity Gala in Kensington, London, she honestly said that she thinks she would make a terrible partner.
Anne, 66, said, “I really struggle with being close to others and having anyone else in the house.
“I think a lot of autistic people don’t get married or settle down.”
Anne explained, “I don’t even have pets because of this, and my ability to live with other people is getting smaller. I need a lot of alone time.
“I always feel like I need more space than anyone can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find one, but honestly, I don’t.”
She also mentioned that her longest relationship only lasted four months. Reflecting on that time, she said, “It only worked for those few months because I was in Manchester. I kind of set it up so it wouldn’t last.”
In the end, she wrote to him to end things. “I remember crying with relief and then crying with guilt,” she shared.
Anne felt overwhelmed during that relationship. “Sometimes, I unplugged the phone because he tried to call me every day. I just wanted it to be over.
“I’d sit there waiting for the phone to ring, thinking, ‘Don’t phone, don’t phone, don’t phone!’ Other times, to get over the waiting, I’d call him, but that made him think I wanted to talk. I really just wanted to end it. I didn’t want to talk to him or anyone!”
Anne joked that she hasn’t lacked offers from admirers who seem to like her “Mrs. Trunchbull” Governess outfit.
She said, “I’m sure some people are attracted to the whole look of The Governess. I think there are some who might be interested if they let me.”
Anne said, “I do meet attractive men, but I know it won’t work out. I feel like it’s not fair to them because I won’t treat them well.”
She added, “I always want more space than they can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find someone, but I don’t.”
She thinks it’s better not to date at all and enjoys having men as friends more than women. She recalled a quiz she attended in June, where a woman pointed out they were the only two women in the room, but Anne hadn’t even noticed because she was talking to her male friends.
Anne also shared that this is part of why she never had children, even though she is great with kids. “I did want children, but I knew I wouldn’t be able to handle it very well.”
About 20 years ago, two kids from her neighborhood used to come over. “We limited their visits to just one hour a day, but they always wanted to stay longer. They were wonderful kids, and we’re now friends on Facebook, but I couldn’t handle that for more than an hour.”
Anne takes her role as godmother to Mark “Beast” Labbett’s eight-year-old son, Lawrence, very seriously.
She said, “Lawrence’s birthday is at the end of November, so I usually send a birthday and Christmas present at the same time—but they are not the same gift. My parents had winter birthdays, and I knew they hated getting just one present for two celebrations.”
Anne joked that one of the gifts she gave Lawrence was a bit inappropriate—a toy crossbow. “So, weaponry,” she laughed. “But lately, I’ve been giving him Minecraft vouchers since he really loves that.”
She also mentioned that she has spent Christmas alone for the past 40 years. That’s why she’s especially happy to be playing the Fairy Godmother in this year’s panto, Cinderella, in Scarborough.
Anne, who was on I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here in 2018, said, “Now that I’m in panto, I can say, ‘Sorry, I’m in Scarborough!’ and that’s my only day off.”
She sees it as a great day off. Even though many people invite her to spend Christmas with them, she prefers not to. “I don’t do Christmas dinner or a tree. When I was a kid, I just remember all the pine needles everywhere!”
Earlier this year, Anne took on another acting role, making a cameo as a neighbor in a film called Exorcising Barry, which is about a man obsessed with a demon.
Anne said that any chance of going to Hollywood is out of the question.
She explained, “America wouldn’t want me because I’m fat. I have a friend who went there for work, and even though she looks amazing, they told her she needed to lose weight. I’m fine with how I am, but they don’t like fat British actresses.”
Despite this, she has had great success in Britain. Talking about The Chase’s recent National Television Award win, she said, “I’m so happy. Bradley Walsh is amazing. It’s been 14 years, and I love it.”
She added, “Other kids used to sing in front of the mirror with a hairbrush. When I was younger, I practiced being interviewed for when I became famous. I don’t know why, but it’s always been my dream.”
A Tattoo Artist Uses Her Magic Touch to Ink a “New Permanent Eye” for a Man After Tragedy
For most people, tattoos are a form of self-expression. But for one man, ink became a life-changing solution after a devastating accident left him without an eye. Instead of opting for a traditional glass prosthetic, he took a different path—one that led him to a skilled tattoo artist with the ability to create hyperrealistic tattoos.
A Tragic Accident That Changed Everything
Pavel, a young man with a bright future, suffered a horrific car accident that left him with severe facial injuries. His nose was nearly destroyed, and his right eye was beyond repair. Reconstructing his face would require a series of complex medical procedures, but one of the biggest challenges was how to deal with his missing eye.
Doctors initially explored the possibility of saving what was left of his damaged eye. However, the risk of infection spreading to his healthy eye was too high. The safest option was to remove it entirely.
Pavel accepted the decision with courage, saying:
“I don’t hold on to things that don’t work. It’s better to get rid of something potentially dangerous than to risk losing my other eye too.”
But once the procedure was done, he was left with an important question—how should he replace his missing eye?
From Surgery to Art: A Unique Solution Emerges
Traditionally, people in Pavel’s situation turn to glass prosthetic eyes. But he wanted something different—something that wouldn’t require daily removal or ongoing adjustments.
That’s when doctors introduced him to a highly skilled tattoo artist specializing in hyperrealistic medical tattoos. She had already made a name for herself by helping burn victims, breast cancer survivors, and alopecia patients reclaim their confidence through tattoo artistry.
However, this project was different. She wasn’t just restoring eyebrows or camouflaging scars—she was about to create the illusion of a realistic eye on a flat surface.
This would become one of the most challenging tattoos of her career.
The Artist’s Preparation: A Year of Meticulous Planning
A hyperrealistic tattoo isn’t something that happens overnight. The artist dedicated a full year to studying and preparing for this groundbreaking piece.
Her process included:
- Analyzing old photos of Pavel to match his original eye color and shape.
- Developing a custom pigment palette that could replicate the natural shading of an eye, ensuring the sclera (the white part) didn’t look unnaturally bright.
- Practicing on artificial skin to simulate the texture of scar tissue and skin grafts, testing how ink would blend.
- Consulting with doctors to ensure that tattooing wouldn’t interfere with his healing process.
- Sketching and refining designs over and over again to get the illusion of depth just right.
While the artist prepared, Pavel adjusted to his new face. He remained patient, even joking:
“While you’re practicing, I’ll get used to my new nose!”
Despite the curiosity of strangers, his friends and family stood by him, treating him no differently. Their support gave him the strength to embrace the journey ahead.
The Big Day: Creating a Realistic Eye with Ink
After months of preparation, the day finally arrived. Pavel stepped into the tattoo studio, knowing this was a permanent transformation.
The artist carefully mapped out the placement of the eye tattoo, ensuring that it:
- Aligned naturally with his facial structure.
- Considered the shadows and highlights needed to create depth.
- Worked with the texture of his skin grafts and scars, ensuring the ink settled correctly.
The first outlines were drawn, and within a few hours, the shape of an eye began to emerge. When the artist handed Pavel a mirror, he smiled and said:
“Wow! It actually looks like something!”
There was still work to be done—adding highlights, refining details, and perfecting the illusion—but the transformation had begun.
The Power of Medical Tattoos: A Growing Trend
Pavel’s story isn’t just a remarkable example of tattoo artistry—it’s part of a growing movement where tattoos serve medical and emotional purposes.
Some of the most impactful medical tattoo techniques include:
- Scar camouflage tattoos, which help burn victims and surgery patients feel more comfortable in their skin.
- 3D nipple tattoos, which help breast cancer survivors reclaim their bodies after mastectomies.
- Eyebrow tattoos, providing a solution for alopecia patients and chemotherapy survivors.
- Skin pigmentation correction, helping people with vitiligo and birthmarks achieve a more even skin tone.
The use of hyperrealistic tattoos in medical recovery is revolutionizing self-confidence, showing that tattoos are not just about self-expression—they’re about self-restoration.
More Than Ink: How Tattoos Can Heal Beyond the Surface
Pavel’s journey highlights an important truth—tattoos have the power to change lives.
Beyond their visual appeal, medical tattoos help individuals regain control over their bodies after trauma. Studies show that people who undergo these procedures experience:
- Increased self-esteem
- A renewed sense of identity
- Emotional healing after a traumatic experience
For many, these tattoos shift the focus from loss to empowerment, allowing them to move forward with confidence.
Conclusion: A Story of Strength, Art, and Transformation
Pavel’s story is a testament to resilience, innovation, and the transformative power of art.
With the help of a brilliant tattoo artist, he didn’t just replace his missing eye—he reclaimed his confidence.
His journey serves as a powerful reminder that true beauty isn’t about perfection—it’s about embracing what makes you unique and finding strength in the face of adversity.
In the world of medical tattoos, artists aren’t just creating inked designs—they’re restoring hope, identity, and dignity.
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