Sadie and Jarvis Sampson tried for years to have a baby, using every method they could think of. They eventually accepted that they might only ever be an aunt and uncle. Then, one day, they got a text that changed their lives completely.
The couple had been trying to get pregnant since they got married in January 2018, but when it didn’t happen on its own, they tried everything else.
“We used ovulation tests, took prenatal vitamins, tracked cycles with apps, and used fertility monitors,” the Houston mom told Love What Matters.
“We even tried advice from friends, family, and strangers. For 14 months, we tried, prayed, and waited. Month after month, it was always a negative pregnancy test. It seemed like we might need help to conceive, so we even talked to doctors about it.”
Doctors didn’t offer much help to the couple. They mostly told Sadie to lose weight to improve her chances of getting pregnant. With no other advice, she had gastric surgery and lost 28 pounds.
Sadie’s OBGYN was excited about the weight loss and praised her for it.
“She told me that if I wasn’t pregnant within six months, she would refer me to a fertility specialist because she couldn’t prescribe fertility medication herself,” Sadie said. “I was thrilled! We finally got a positive step forward, even if it wasn’t immediate. We were excited about the progress.”
Unfortunately, the couple didn’t get pregnant after Sadie lost the weight, and they felt like they were back where they started.
“I always felt like I was meant to be a mother,” Sadie said. “Even though my surgeon warned me that I’d be very fertile after the surgery, I still wasn’t getting pregnant. So, we gave up and accepted that we might just be aunt and uncle to our nieces and godparents to our goddaughters.”
Just when the couple had decided to stop trying to have a baby, Sadie got a text from a friend asking if they would think about fostering a baby from a couple she knew.
At first, the couple was hesitant because they were told by a caseworker to take care of the baby while the birth mom was getting treatment. They worried they might get too attached. But then, the situation changed.
“The birth mom has decided she wants you to adopt the baby instead,” the caseworker said.
Sadie remembered saying, “‘Holy crap!!’ out loud when she found out she was going to be a mom.
“We went from having no kids to possibly fostering one, to suddenly being told, ‘You’re going to be parents!’ I was still in shock as I listened to the caseworker. I hung up and called my husband, shouting, ‘Babe!! They want us to adopt the baby! We’re going to be parents!’ He said, ‘Wait! REALLY?! I thought they just wanted us to foster him!’ I told him, ‘Nope! They want us to be his mom and dad.’”
The couple spent the weekend trying to take in the shocking news and getting ready, just in case the birth mom changed her mind.
By Monday, they were not only told that the birth mom still wanted them to adopt the baby, but she also wanted to do an independent adoption and was ready to sign the papers that day.
Their baby boy was born at just 33 weeks, which is seven weeks early. He weighed 4 lbs. 5 oz. “He was so tiny, he literally fit in one of my husband’s hands,” Sadie wrote.
“He was wrapped in a white blanket with pink and blue stripes,” Sadie said. “He had a small tube coming out of his nose because he couldn’t eat on his own since he was born early. But he was so cute!!!”
The couple shared their news on social media and were encouraged to create a registry. They listed 72 items, and within just three days, 55 of them were already bought for them.
Ezra Lee’s adoption was finalized in October 2020, and the couple had adorable family photos taken, all wearing t-shirts that said, “Families don’t have to match.”
In 2021, Sadie and Jarvis became parents to twin girls, Journee and Destinee, through embryo donation. True to their family motto, “Families don’t have to match,” the Black couple now has three white children – a boy and two girls.
For anyone who might judge their beautiful family, they have just one response: their family is built on the strongest foundation ever – love.
My Son Was Going to Marry the Love of His Life, but the Secret Letter Ruined Their Fairytale Wedding
In a twist worthy of a soap opera, Nick and Emily’s dream wedding turned into a nightmare when a letter from Nick’s ex, Natalie, sparked a scandal. Unraveling a web of deceit, they confronted truths that tested their love and trust in a dramatic quest for vindication.
Five years ago, Nick introduced us to his girlfriend, Emily, and right off the bat, she struck me as someone special. It was only their second week of dating, but the way they looked at each other, it was like they’d known one another for a lifetime. Emily was clever, funny, and had this respectful manner that won us over instantly. I remember thinking, “Finally, a woman who matches my son’s heart and spirit.”
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Now, it’s important to mention Nick’s ex, Natalie. She and Nick had a long history, and while their breakup was amicable, I always sensed an undercurrent of unresolved feelings from her end. So, when Emily came into the picture, I braced myself for awkward encounters at group gatherings, given that Natalie was still in our son’s friend circle.
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But life has its surprises, doesn’t it? Natalie and Emily became best friends, much to my initial bewilderment. It was odd at first, watching them laugh and share secrets, knowing their shared connection to Nick. However, seeing the genuine bond they formed helped me put any lingering reservations to rest. It seemed like everyone was moving forward in a healthy, mature way.
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The past, with its complicated emotions, felt like water under the bridge. We embraced Emily as part of our family, and even Natalie’s presence became a natural part of our gatherings. There was a sense of harmony, a balanced dynamic that allowed old wounds to heal and new relationships to flourish.
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Emily’s presence brought a lightness to our family life. She had this way of making even mundane activities seem delightful, and her thoughtful gestures never went unnoticed. Whether it was helping me in the kitchen or engaging in deep conversations with my husband about books and music, Emily fit into our family like the missing piece of a puzzle we didn’t know we were missing.
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The contrast between Emily and Natalie, in terms of their relationship with Nick and our family, was stark yet beautifully reconciled. While Natalie shared a past with Nick, it was Emily who shared his present and, presumably, his future. This dynamic, surprisingly, caused no jealousy or tension; it instead wove a richer tapestry of our collective experiences.
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The lead-up to the wedding was a time of pure bliss. After numerous delays due to Covid and other life hurdles, we were finally gearing up for the big day. Emily and I, along with her mother, spent countless hours pouring over every detail.
We found the perfect snow-white dress that made Emily look like a dream. The bond between our families grew stronger during these preparations; there was laughter, shared stories, and an air of excitement that made everything feel magical.
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We chose a stunning beach venue, with an archway decorated with white and pale pink flowers that framed the ocean view spectacularly. It was as if we were stepping into a fairytale, with the soft sound of waves complementing our joyous preparations.
The day before the wedding, everything seemed perfect. The rehearsal dinner was a celebration of love, family, and the future. Nick and Emily looked so in love, so ready to start their new life together. It felt like nothing could go wrong.
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But then, the unexpected twist. On the wedding day, as guests started to arrive and the sun began its slow descent, casting a golden glow over the beach, the atmosphere was electric with anticipation. I was helping with the final touches when I saw Natalie approach Nick.
They shared a long hug, and then she handed him a letter. I could only hear her saying, “Read it and run.” I saw the color drain from Nick’s face as he read the contents. Without a word, he turned, ran to his car, and drove off at a speed that left everyone in shock.
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The confusion that followed was indescribable. Guests were whispering, wondering what had happened to cause such a reaction. I approached Natalie, my heart pounding, and asked what was in the letter. Her smile, wide and unsettling, did nothing to ease my anxiety. “I just showed him the truth about who Emily is,” she said before turning and walking away. My mind raced with possibilities, none of them good.
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I rushed to find Emily, who was in the bridal suite, oblivious to the chaos unfolding outside. The look of joy and anticipation on her face turned to one of shock and confusion as I relayed what had happened. She couldn’t understand it; she kept repeating that everything was fine, that she and Nick were happy. Her disbelief mirrored my own. How could a day so filled with love turn so quickly into a nightmare?
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As Emily tried to call Nick, her hands shaking and her eyes welling with tears, I stood there feeling helpless. The joy of the morning had evaporated, leaving a heavy cloud of uncertainty. The wedding was supposed to be a celebration of love and new beginnings, but instead, it turned into a scene from a dramatic movie that you never expect to be part of your life.
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After Nick drove away from the venue, leaving a cloud of dust and unanswered questions behind, the rest of us were frozen in disbelief. The joyous occasion of his wedding to Emily turned into a scene of chaos and confusion. With the ceremony abruptly canceled, guests dispersed, murmuring about what might have caused such a dramatic exit. I was left to face a room full of decorations that now seemed like relics of a joy that was never fully realized.
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I found Emily in a state of utter shock, her bridal gown—a symbol of joy and union—now just a painful reminder of what could have been. She was inconsolable, her dream day shattered into pieces. I attempted to piece together the events, to understand why my son would do something so drastic. Emily, through her tears, insisted she had no idea why Nick would react so strongly to whatever was in that letter from Natalie.
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The next day, the tension in our home was palpable. Nick returned, his eyes red, a mix of anger and sorrow in his expression. He looked like someone carrying the weight of the world.
It was then that he revealed the cause of his sudden departure: a letter from Natalie, containing screenshots of what appeared to be Emily kissing another man at a bar, dated just a month ago. My heart sank as he showed me the images, his hands trembling, voice filled with a mixture of rage and pain.
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The letter, he explained, was Natalie’s proof of Emily’s alleged infidelity. I stared at the images, feeling a mix of anger and skepticism. How could Emily, who had shown nothing but love and commitment to Nick, be the person in these compromising photos? And yet, the evidence seemed undeniable, the timestamps glaring accusingly from the corner of each image.
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I urged Nick to confront Emily directly, to seek the truth beyond the damning images. It was clear that the situation was complex, and I couldn’t shake the feeling that something about Natalie’s intervention felt maliciously orchestrated. The fact that Nick had been swayed so significantly by these images, without direct confrontation or discussion with Emily, spoke volumes about the trust issues sown by Natalie’s insinuations over time.
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As a mother, I felt torn between supporting my son and seeking justice for Emily, who I believed was wronged in this devastating scenario. The cancellation of the wedding, the tears, the accusations—it all felt like a nightmare we couldn’t wake up from.
The day after that, Emily, steadfast in her innocence, urged Nick to revisit the bar captured in the incriminating screenshots. She was adamant that the images were doctored, and the truth lay within the establishment’s security footage.
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Reluctantly, and with a heart heavy with doubt, Nick agreed to accompany Emily to the bar. The atmosphere was tense, as both were about to face what could be the final blow to their relationship. Upon arrival, they were met with initial resistance. The staff, wary of getting involved in personal disputes, were hesitant to grant access to the security tapes.
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But as Emily and Nick shared their story, the gravity of the situation became apparent. The bar manager, sensing the desperation and the potential injustice at play, agreed to help. With bated breath, they reviewed the footage, searching for the timestamp that matched the screenshots.
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And there, on the grainy screen, was the moment of truth. The couple in the footage was indeed not Nick and Emily. The woman, though similar in appearance to Emily, was clearly someone else upon closer inspection.
The man was a stranger to both of them. The realization that these images were manipulated to resemble Emily hit Nick like a ton of bricks. The deceit was palpable, and the relief that followed was mixed with a profound sense of betrayal.
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The truth was both a balm and a sharp sting. Emily’s innocence was proven, but the extent of Natalie’s manipulation was a bitter pill to swallow. Nick was confronted with the reality that someone he once cared for could orchestrate such a malicious scheme. The deception was not just a simple act of jealousy but a calculated move to destroy a relationship and, potentially, two lives.
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In that moment, the pieces of the puzzle fell into place. The months of Natalie whispering doubts about Emily, her seemingly innocuous comments about Emily’s loyalty, were all part of a larger, more sinister plan. Nick’s realization of Natalie’s true nature was a jarring wake-up call to the dangers of hidden malice and the lengths some people will go to fulfill their vendettas.
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The stark revelation of Natalie’s deceit shattered the trust that once seemed unbreakable between them. They’ve been grappling with the shadows of betrayal, trying to piece back together a relationship that was nearly destroyed by meticulously crafted lies.
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For Nick, the guilt of doubting Emily, the woman he loves, has been a heavy burden. He’s been wrestling with his own naivety and the realization that his trust in Natalie, a friend he thought he knew, led to such chaos. The journey for him has been one of learning to forgive himself, understanding the complexities of trust, and the importance of open communication.
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Emily, on the other hand, faced with the immense pain of being wrongfully accused, has been a pillar of strength, yet not without her own struggles. The betrayal by a close friend, coupled with the public embarrassment of a canceled wedding, tested her resolve and trust in those around her. Her journey is one of healing, rebuilding her self-worth, and learning to trust again, not just in Nick but in the relationships that surround her.
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Together, they are taking steps towards mending their bond, knowing well that the scars of such profound betrayal take time to heal. Their relationship, once a beacon of love and understanding, now bears the marks of suspicion and hurt. Yet, in these trials, there is a glimmer of hope, a testament to their commitment to one another and the love they share.
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As for me, watching my son and his fiancée endure such heartache has been a stark reminder of the fragile nature of trust and the destructive power of jealousy. It’s a lesson in the importance of seeking the truth and the need for vigilance in protecting our loved ones from hidden malice.
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Looking forward, the road to recovery for Nick and Emily is uncertain but not without hope. The love that brought them together is still evident, flickering amidst the turmoil, ready to be rekindled. As a mother, my deepest wish is for them to find happiness and for their love to emerge stronger, fortified by the trials they’ve overcome.
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