I Told My Date about My Specific 3-Year-Rule, but He Immediately Left and Blocked Me – Is It Really That Weird?

Addison’s life revolves around her demanding job as a neurologist, leaving little time for romance. When her cheerful coworker Nathan sets her up on a blind date with a seemingly perfect guy named Jake, she finally feels a spark of hope. However, after Addison shares her three-year dating rule, her date abruptly leaves. What went wrong?

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I always thought my life would stay the same.

Day in and day out, the hospital consumed all my time.

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A smiling young doctor | Source: Midjourney

My name is Addison, and I work as a neurologist. My days are filled with patients, charts, and endless rounds.

It’s a fulfilling job, but it leaves little room for anything else, especially dating.

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A busy young woman | Source: Midjourney

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One day, while grabbing a quick coffee in the break room, my coworker Nathan walked in with a bright smile on his face.

Nathan is always in a good mood, no matter how stressful the day gets.

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A smiling doctor | Source: Midjourney

“Hey, Addison,” Nathan said, leaning against the counter. “How do you feel about blind dates?”

I laughed, almost spilling my coffee. “Blind dates? Nathan, you know my schedule. I barely have time to eat, let alone date.”

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Two professionals laughing and chatting | Source: Midjourney

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Nathan chuckled. “I know, but hear me out. My friend Jake is a great guy. He’s kind, funny, and I think you two would hit it off. What do you say?”

I paused, considering it. I hadn’t been on a date in ages, and the idea of meeting someone new was intriguing. Plus, Nathan seemed genuinely excited about it.

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A couple enjoying drinks | Source: Pexels

“Okay, then,” I said, smiling. “You’ve convinced me. When’s this magical date happening?”

Nathan’s face lit up. “Really?? How about next Tuesday night? It’s the only evening that works for both of you!”

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Next Tuesday. I mentally checked my calendar. It was one of the rare nights I didn’t have a late shift or any other commitments.

“Next Tuesday works for me,” I said. “Let’s do it.”

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A female doctor talking to a male doctor | Source: Midjourney

Nathan grinned. “Great! I’ll set it up and text you the details. You won’t regret this, Addison,” he said with a wink.

“We’ll see that,” I laughed and finished my coffee quickly.

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As I walked back to my office, I felt both excited and nervous. It had been so long since I had gone on a date.

My life had become a routine of work and more work, with little time for anything else. But maybe this was what I needed — a chance to step out of my comfort zone.

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A doctor lost in her work | Source: Midjourney

The rest of the day flew by in a blur of patient consultations and medical charts. But in the back of my mind, I kept thinking about the upcoming date. Maybe, just maybe, this blind date with Jake would be the start of something new.

On Tuesday night, I arrived at the quaint restaurant Nathan had suggested.

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It was cozy, with dim lighting and a warm ambiance that immediately put me at ease. As I walked in, I spotted a man sitting at a table near the window.

He looked up, smiled, and waved me over.

This must be Jake, I thought to myself.

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A smiling man at a table | Source: Midjourney

“Addison?” he asked as I approached the table.

“Yes, and you must be Jake,” I replied with a smile.

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We shook hands, and I took a seat. Almost immediately, the waitress came over to take our drink orders.

“I’ll have a glass of red wine, please,” I said.

“I’ll have the same,” Jake added.

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Two people enjoying wine | Source: Freepik

As the waitress left, we started chatting. Jake was easy to talk to, and I felt my initial nervousness melt away.

“So, Nathan tells me you’re a neurologist,” he said, looking genuinely interested. “That must be a challenging job.”

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“It is,” I nodded. “But I love it. What about you? What do you do?”

“I’m a graphic designer,” Jake replied. “I work freelance, so my schedule is pretty flexible. It’s a lot of fun, especially when I get to work on creative projects.”

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A person working on their laptop | Source: Pexels

Our drinks arrived, and we ordered appetizers — stuffed mushrooms and bruschetta. As we nibbled on the delicious food, we continued to talk about our lives, hobbies, and interests.

“I love hiking and photography,” Jake said, taking a sip of his wine. “There’s something about being in nature that’s so refreshing.”

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“I’ve always wanted to get into photography,” I said. “But I never seem to find the time. Maybe you could give me some tips?”

“I’d love to,” Jake said with a smile. “It’s all about finding the right light and angle.”

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A woman with a camera | Source: Pexels

As the evening went on, I found myself more and more charmed by Jake. He was kind, funny, and easy to talk to.

We laughed a lot, and it felt like I had known him for much longer than just one evening.

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As we moved on to our main course, Jake looked at me with a smile. “So, Addison, how about we ask each other some more personal questions to break the ice further?”

“Sure, that sounds good,” I said. “What do you want to know?”

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Jake leaned in slightly. “How about your one-to-five-year plan? What are your goals?”

I took a moment to think. “Well, I hope to advance in my career as a neurologist,” I began.

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“Maybe get promoted to a senior position. I also want to decorate my apartment; it feels too plain right now,” I continued. “I’ve been thinking about getting a pet, maybe a cat or a small dog. And I’d love to travel more, see new places, and experience different cultures. Oh, and I want to expand my bookshelf with my favorite novels. I love reading!”

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Pile of books and cup on top | Source: Unsplash

“That sounds wonderful. You have a lot of exciting plans!” he grinned.

“What about you?” I asked, curious to hear about his future plans.

“I want to grow my freelance business,” Jake said. “Maybe open my own studio one day. I also love traveling, so I’d like to visit more countries. And, believe it or not, I’ve been thinking about getting a pet too. A dog, probably.”

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We laughed at the coincidence, and it felt nice to find common ground!

“So, how do you feel about marriage and family?” Jake further asked as he sipped his wine.

And this is where it all went horribly wrong.

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“Honestly, I’d love to find a partner to share my life with,” I told him, “someone who understands and supports me. But marriage isn’t a necessity for me. If it happens, great, but if not, that’s okay too. As for children, I don’t see myself having any. For now. I’m happy with my career and personal goals.”

Jake leaned forward, looking serious. “What if you found the perfect guy? How long before you’d marry him?”

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Two people smiling at each other and standing close | Source: Freepik

“Three years,” I said. “I believe in building a strong foundation. Six months to really get to know someone, a year of serious dating, and a year and a half of living together before considering engagement or marriage.”

Jake’s face changed, his friendly expression replaced by a frown. He leaned back in his chair, crossing his arms. “Three years? That’s a long time. What if someone wants a quicker timeline?”

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I felt a knot forming in my stomach. “Well, uh, I think it’s important to take time to build a strong relationship. I’m pretty confident about my three-year-plan.”

Jake’s frown deepened, and he abruptly called the waitress. “Check, please,” he said curtly. She looked confused but quickly brought the bill.

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“Jake, what’s wrong?” I asked as he stood up, but he didn’t bother to answer. He paid and walked out of the restaurant without a glance back.

I sat there, stunned and hurt. What just happened?

Later, at home, I couldn’t stop thinking about the evening.

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A woman staring at her reflection | Source: Pexels

How could Jake just leave like that?

Deciding I needed answers, I messaged him.

I sent a selfie we took together and wrote, “Hey Jake, why did you leave so suddenly? I thought we were having a great time.”

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A few minutes later, his reply came: “Don’t contact me again. You’re indecisive and not serious about what you want.”

Then, he blocked me.

I stared at my phone in disbelief. Was I really that off base?

The next day at work, I noticed Nathan giving me strange glances. Gathering my courage, I decided to confront him.

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A man holding a phone in his hands | Source: Unsplash

“Nathan, what did Jake tell you? You know why he left, don’t you?” I asked, trying to keep my voice steady.

Nathan looked uncomfortable and shifted on his feet. “You messed it up, Addy,” he said. “Jake… told me you were wasting his time. He wanted something serious. He was looking for marriage, and you… you weren’t the best person for him. Sorry, I gotta go.”

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I couldn’t believe it.

During my lunch break, I called my best friend, Sophie.

“Hey, Addison. How did the date go?” was the first thing she asked.

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I sighed, feeling the weight of the evening pressing on me. “It started great, but then it ended terribly. Jake left abruptly after I talked about my three-year plan, and then he blocked me when I asked him why.”

Sophie’s eyes widened. “He did what? That’s ridiculous! What exactly happened?”

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A sad young doctor | Source: Midjourney

I recounted every detail, my voice trembling slightly as I relived the evening. When I finished, Sophie shook her head. “Addison, being honest about your expectations is important. If he couldn’t handle that, it’s his loss.”

“I can’t stop wondering if my three-year rule is really that strange, Sophie,” I admitted, my voice breaking a bit.

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“Not at all,” Sophie said firmly. “Everyone has their own timeline and needs. What matters is that you stay true to yourself. If he couldn’t appreciate that, he wasn’t the right guy for you.”

Her words wrapped around me like a comforting blanket. But it didn’t ease all my worries. Was I wrong to be upfront about my expectations? Should I have kept it to myself? All I know is that being honest about what I want is important, even if it means losing a date like Jake.

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What would you have done?

If you enjoyed this story, here’s another one: Julia is excited to surprise her husband on his birthday, but everything changes when she hears an unexpected voice. Hiding in the living room, her heart pounds as her husband’s laughter mingles with another woman’s. What will Julia uncover?

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

I Rushed to the Hospital After My Husband’s Serious Accident — Only to Find His ‘Other Wife’ at the Reception Asking to Visit Him

My marriage wasn’t perfect, but I thought I knew the man I had built a life with. That illusion shattered the moment I rushed to the hospital after my husband’s accident, only to find another woman there, claiming to be his wife too.

I never thought I’d be one of those women; the kind who discovers her entire marriage was a lie in the most ridiculous, soap opera-worthy way possible.

You know the type. The ones you read about online, the ones whose husbands lead secret lives with second families across town.

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A thoughtful woman staring out the window of her room | Source: Midjourney

I used to shake my head at their stories, thinking, How do you not know? How blind do you have to be?

But there I was, standing in the hospital lobby, frozen in shock.

Because the woman at the reception desk? The one frantically asking about my husband?

She was calling him her husband too.

And in that moment, I knew; Brian was about to regret every single lie he ever told.

It started with a phone call.

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A closeup shot of a smart phone’s display screen | Source: Pexels

I was at the sink, scrubbing away at a stubborn stain on a wine glass. The house was quiet, except for the low hum of the dishwasher. Brian had been away on one of his so-called “business trips” all week, and I was preparing for another night of mindless TV and leftover lasagna.

Then, my phone rang.

Unknown Number.

I almost ignored it. Probably spam. But something, some instinct I couldn’t explain, made me dry my hands and answer.

“Hello?”

A tight, professional voice responded, “Is this Ms. Donna?”

My stomach dropped. “Yes?”

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A woman talking on her phone in the kitchen | Source: Midjourney

“This is St. Mary’s Hospital. Your husband, Brian, has been in a serious car accident. You need to come immediately.”

The world around me tilted.

I gripped the counter. “Is he—” My throat closed up.

“He’s alive,” the nurse reassured me. “But in critical condition. Please come quickly.”

My keys. My shoes. I barely remember grabbing them. My body moved on autopilot as I ran out the door, my mind racing with fear.

Brian. My husband. Lying in a hospital bed, fighting for his life.

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A closeup shot of a patient’s blood pressure and pulse being measured in a hospital | Source: Pexels

I didn’t know that the real disaster was waiting for me at the hospital.

The hospital smelled like antiseptic and despair. I practically sprinted to the front desk, my pulse pounding in my ears.

“My husband, Brian,” I gasped. “He was in an accident. Where is he?”

The receptionist, a middle-aged woman with tired eyes, glanced at her screen. “Room 314. But—”

She stopped mid-sentence, looking over my shoulder.

I turned and that’s when I saw her.

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A surprised woman standing in a hospital corridor | Source: Midjourney

A woman. Maybe late twenties. Blonde, pretty, dressed casually in yoga pants and a sweatshirt. Her face was flushed with panic, her hands gripping the edge of the reception desk.

And the words that came out of her mouth made my blood turn to ice.

“I’m here to see my husband, Brian,” she told the receptionist.

My husband.

My. Husband.

I blinked, sure I misheard her. But the receptionist looked between us, confused.

“Uh… you both said you’re his wife?”

The woman, this stranger, turned to me, brows knitting together. “I’m sorry, who are you?”

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A worried blonde-haired woman standing in a hospital corridor | Source: Midjourney

I let out a sharp, humorless laugh. “Who am I? Who the hell are you?”

Her face paled.

The silence stretched. Then, like puzzle pieces falling into place, realization hit us both at the same time.

We had been married to the same man.

For years.

The floor felt like it had vanished beneath me.

I gripped the reception desk, trying to breathe through the dizziness.

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A shocked woman standing next to the reception desk in a hospital | Source: Midjourney

Stephanie, that was her name, as I later learned, took a shaky step back, her mouth opening and closing like she wanted to say something, but no words came out.

Finally, she whispered, “That’s impossible. We’ve been in a civil marriage for five years.”

I let out a bitter, disbelieving laugh. “Try ten.”

Her eyes widened in horror.

We stared at each other, two strangers connected by the same man, the same lies.

The air between us crackled with a silent, shared realization.

“Oh my God,” she whispered.

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A shocked blonde-haired woman standing in a hospital corridor | Source: Midjourney

The betrayal settled in. The rage boiled over.

For a moment, neither of us spoke.

Stephanie and I just stood there, staring at each other, the weight of our shared betrayal settling between us.

But then something happened.

We really looked at each other.

And instead of seeing a rival, I saw a woman just like me. Someone who had been lied to, manipulated, and made a fool of by the same man.

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A reflective woman standing in a hospital corridor | Source: Midjourney

And in that moment, I knew: Brian was about to have the worst wake-up call of his life.

We didn’t even need to say it out loud.

The plan formed between us in an instant, an unspoken understanding solidifying like concrete.

Stephanie turned to the receptionist. “Can we both go up?”

The woman looked nervous. “Only family is allowed.”

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A receptionist holding a tablet computer in a hospital | Source: Pexels

I smiled sweetly, resting an elbow on the counter. “Oh, we’re family. Trust me.”

The receptionist hesitated, her eyes flickering between us. There was something about the way we stood — unified, brimming with quiet fury — that must’ve convinced her not to argue.

She exhaled sharply. “Fine. Room 314.”

Stephanie and I exchanged a look.

We walked side by side toward the elevator, silent but seething. The fluorescent lights buzzed overhead as we stepped inside.

Neither of us spoke.

But by the time we reached Brian’s room?

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A hospital hallway | Source: Pexels

We were smiling.

Because this man had no idea what was coming.

Brian was a mess.

Bruised, bandaged, and hooked up to machines, he looked half-conscious, his face pale against the stark white pillow.

When he spotted me, his expression shifted to relief. “Babe—thank God you’re here.”

Then his eyes flicked to the woman standing beside me.

And all the color drained from his face.

Stephanie smiled sweetly. “Hi, babe. Or should I say… husband?”

Brian looked like a deer caught in headlights. He opened his mouth, but no sound came out.

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A closeup shot of an injured man lying in a hospital bed | Source: Midjourney

I crossed my arms. “Hey, sweetheart. You remember Stephanie, don’t you?”

His breathing turned shallow. “I—I can explain—”

“Oh, please.” I rolled my eyes. “You had a WHOLE SECOND LIFE, Brian. Two wives. Two homes. Two entire marriages.”

Stephanie smirked. “Classic narcissist behavior.”

Brian swallowed hard. “Listen—I never meant—”

“Save it,” I interrupted. “We’re not here for an apology. We’re here to give you a little news update.”

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A woman looks serious and determined while standing in a hospital room | Source: Midjourney

His eyes darted between us, panic creeping in.

Stephanie leaned against the foot of the hospital bed, casually inspecting her nails. “Fun fact, Brian,” she said, her voice light. “Your hospital bill? Donna and I aren’t paying for it. You can rot here.”

Brian’s mouth parted in disbelief. “Wha—You can’t just leave me here!”

I tilted my head. “Oh, we can.”

Stephanie folded her arms. “And we will.”

Brian shifted in his bed, wincing. “Wait, wait—Stephanie, please. Baby…”

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A bruised man with a pained expression lying in a hospital bed | Source: Midjourney

Her expression hardened. “Baby? Oh, that’s rich. You had me thinking we were starting a family. We were looking at houses. You wanted a baby, Brian!”

I flinched. A baby? Jesus Christ. This was worse than I thought.

Brian squeezed his eyes shut. “I was—I was gonna tell you both—”

“Oh, yeah?” I scoffed. “When? On your deathbed? When you got caught? Oh wait—that already happened.”

Stephanie snorted.

Brian’s chest rose and fell rapidly. “Look, we can fix this—”

“Fix what?” I snapped. “You are the problem, Brian.”

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An extremely hurt woman standing in a hospital room | Source: Midjourney

Stephanie shook her head. “And you know what’s funny? I defended you. I believed every lie you ever told me.”

Brian reached a hand toward her, wincing. “Steph, please, just listen…”

Stephanie took a slow step back, her voice eerily calm. “You don’t get to say my name. Not anymore.”

The silence was thick, suffocating.

Brian’s jaw clenched. His eyes flickered between us, desperate. “So what? That’s it? You’re both just leaving me?”

I gave him a mock-sympathetic look. “That’s the general idea, yeah.”

Stephanie smirked. “Hope you like hospital gowns, babe.”

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A blonde-haired woman smirks while standing in a hospital room and looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

Brian opened his mouth to argue, maybe to beg.

But we were already gone.

Brian’s web of lies unraveled fast.

Turns out?

He wasn’t just a liar. He was a fraud.

His boss found out about the fake business trips; they were real, but he had been funding personal vacations with company money. He got fired immediately.

Stephanie and I both filed for divorce. Turns out, bigamy is very illegal, and Brian was looking at a very expensive legal battle.

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A photo showing two pens lying on divorce papers | Source: Pexels

His family? Oh, they disowned him. His mother called me personally to apologize, crying about how she “raised him better than this.” (Spoiler: She did not.)

And his living situation?

Well, let’s just say when you lie to two wives and use their money to pay for your life, things tend to go south real quick.

He got evicted.

His credit was trashed.

And last I heard? He was living in his car.

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A gloomy man sitting in his car | Source: Midjourney

I never thought I’d be bonded for life to my husband’s other wife.

But Stephanie and I? We’re friends now. We meet for coffee every Sunday. We even went on a girls’ trip to Cancún last summer, paid for with the money we got from selling Brian’s precious collectibles.

As for Brian?

Well, karma did the rest of the work.

And I sleep great at night knowing that.

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A smiling woman | Source: Midjourney

If you found this story heartwarming, here’s another one: When my husband told me he had a work party to go to, I never suspected anything untoward until I received a call that made me stop in my tracks! What I heard on the other line had me grabbing my car keys to confront him and packing his things the next day!

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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