I Told My Friend She Married a Useless Man, and Now She Hates Me

I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.

I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).

I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).

Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.

My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.

It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.

She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….

I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.

Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.

Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.

She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.

I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.

Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.

TikTok Star Taylor Rousseau Grigg’s Cause of Death Leaves Everyone ‘Terrified’

On October 5, 2024, Cameron Grigg, Taylor Rousseau Grigg’s husband, announced her sudden and heartbreaking death, sharing how devastated he was by her passing. His emotional message highlighted the deep pain and loss that her family and friends are enduring.

Soon after, Taylor’s family revealed the cause of her death, sparking discussions online. Many users expressed their shock and shared their own experiences with the illness, while others voiced concerns about the condition that led to her untimely passing at just 25 years old. These conversations continue to resonate deeply within the online community.

Taylor Rousseau Grigg passed away on October 4, 2024, at just 25 years old. A representative of her family confirmed that she died from complications related to asthma and Addison’s disease. Her sudden death has left her fans and followers in shock and deep sorrow. Many users on social media shared their grief, with one commenting that the TikTok star was “too young” to have her life cut short.

Taylor’s death has sparked discussions about the seriousness of both conditions, raising awareness of the risks associated with asthma and Addison’s disease. Her passing is a tragic reminder of how these health issues can unexpectedly become life-threatening.

Fans of Taylor Rousseau Grigg have been sharing heartfelt condolences across social media after learning of her untimely passing. One fan expressed, *”Rest in peace she is beautiful ,”* while another reminisced about her presence on TikTok, writing, *”She was such a star on TikTok – Rest in Peace [sic].”*

Taylor’s followers are mourning the loss of a young influencer whose life and content had a meaningful impact on many. The outpouring of love reflects the deep connection she had with her audience, who will remember her for her warmth and talent on the platform.

Addison’s disease is a chronic condition where the adrenal glands don’t produce enough hormones. This can lead to a range of symptoms like extreme fatigue, weight loss, low blood pressure, and even nausea or muscle pain. Taylor Rousseau Grigg, who tragically passed away at 25, had been battling both Addison’s disease and asthma. Asthma is a respiratory condition that causes symptoms like wheezing, shortness of breath, and in severe cases, life-threatening attacks.

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