When it comes to Howie Mandel, the first thing that comes to mind is positivism and laughter.
According to IMDb, he started his career in showbiz by pure chance. A producer noticed him during an amateur night at the Comedy Store on the L.A. Sunset Strip during a vacation after his friends convinced him to try it out.
Today, Mandel is one of the most famous names in the world of entertainment. A TV celebrity, screenwriter, actor, producer, director, entrepreneur, and popular game show panelist/host, you name it, Mandel has tried it all and proved that he’s great in all of it.
Recently, however, he decided to open up about his mental state and confessed he’s been battling anxiety, ADHD, and OCD most of his life. The truth is that no one can really assume that someone as fun as Mandel could be going through such a thing.
“I’m living in a nightmare,” he declared. ” I work to ground myself. I love what I do and have a lovely family. However, I can also experience severe sadness from which I can never recover.”
This turned even worse during the COVID-19 pandemic when we were forced into lockdown. Mandel revealed to People magazine that there was no day the thought “we would die” didn’t cross his mind. But the fact that no one from his closest surrounding was affected gave him comfort.
Although he was diagnosed in his thirties, Mandal knows he had OCD and ADHD since forever. He, however, didn’t speak of his mental state openly because he believed it would affect his career. “My first reaction was that I’ve embarrassed my family,” he admitted. “Then I realized that nobody would hire someone who wasn’t stable. Those were my concerns.”
It was comedy that helped him during the toughest times in his life.
“My coping mechanism is finding the humorous,” he declared. “If I’m not smiling, I’m probably sobbing. And I’ve still held back on how horrible and dark it actually gets. In a way, comedy saved me. I feel very much at ease on stage. And when I have nothing to do, I retreat, which is not healthy
Mandel’s goal is to help raise awareness about mental illness and break the stigma.
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I Promised a Homeless Man I’d Find Him a Family in One Evening – But First, We Went to a Salon and a Boutique
Mark meets Stuart, a homeless man, on a busy city street and makes an unusual promise to change his life in just one evening. He starts by giving Stuart a fresh haircut and buying him new clothes, determined to find him a family by the night’s end. But can Mark truly fulfill this bold promise and transform Stuart’s life?
A homeless man | Source: Freepik
You never know who you’ll encounter in life and how they might change your world.
I’m Mark, and a few days ago, I had this wholesome experience I will never forget.
So, I was sitting on a busy city street, munching on my sandwich during lunch break.
A man holding a half-eaten sandwich | Source: Pexels
Out of nowhere, this scruffy-looking guy walks up to me and hands me my wallet.
“Hey, you dropped this,” he said.
I was stunned. “Thanks, man! I didn’t even notice. What’s your name?” I asked, genuinely curious.
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“Stuart,” he replied with a shy smile.
“I’m Mark,” I said, shaking his hand. “I’m a barber. How about I repay you with a fresh haircut?”
Stuart looked down at his worn-out clothes and shrugged. “Why bother? I got no one to impress. Nobody cares about a bum like me.”
I imagined being in Stuart’s shoes, and his words hit me right in the feels. I knew I had to do something more.
A man thinking about something | Source: Pexels
“How about this,” I said, my mind racing. “I bet you I can find you a family in one evening!”
Stuart laughed, thinking I was joking, but I grabbed his hand. “Bet on it!”
I could see he wasn’t really sure, but he agreed.
We headed straight to my shop. “Come on in, Stuart,” I said, holding the door open for him as we arrived. The place was buzzing with activity. My colleagues and a few customers gave us curious looks as we walked in.
Inside a barbershop | Source: Freepik
I pointed to the chair. “Take a seat, Stuart. Let’s see what we can do.”
Stuart hesitated for a moment but then sat down. I draped the cape over him and got to work. “You’re in for a treat,” I said, picking up my clippers.
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As I started cutting his hair, I could see the change happening right before my eyes. The scruffy, tired look began to disappear. Stuart was getting a fresh start, and it showed.
“How’s it looking?” Stuart asked, a bit nervous.
A smiley man at a hair salon | Source: Freepik
“Trust me, you’re going to look great,” I replied, focusing on giving him the best cut possible. Other barbers started to gather around, watching the transformation.
“Wow, Mark, you’re doing wonders,” one of them said, impressed.
A hairdresser standing in a barber shop | Source: Freepik
When I was done, I turned the chair around so Stuart could see himself in the mirror.
His eyes widened. “Is that really me?” he asked, touching his newly styled beard and hair.
“Yep, that’s you,” I said, smiling. “What do you think?”
An elderly man looking into a mirror | Source: Freepik
Stuart grinned, looking a bit shy. “I feel like a new man. But do you think it’s too fancy for a guy like me?”
Everyone in the shop chuckled.
“Not at all,” I said. “You deserve this.”
A man laughing | Source: Pexels
Stuart’s confidence seemed to soar. He stood up a bit straighter, and there was a sparkle in his eye that hadn’t been there before. “Thanks, Mark. This feels amazing,” he said.
But it wasn’t over yet. After the haircut, I decided it was time to get Stuart some new clothes.
Outfits on display inside a boutique | Source: Pexels
We walked over to a nearby clothing boutique. As we stepped inside, the staff greeted us with friendly smiles.
“Hi there! How can we help you today?” one of them asked.
“We need to find my friend Stuart here some stylish clothes,” I said, patting Stuart on the back. Stuart looked around, a bit overwhelmed. “I’ve never been in a place like this,” he whispered to me.
“Don’t worry, we’ll find something great,” I assured him. The staff quickly got to work, bringing out various outfits for Stuart to try.
A man selecting clothes | Source: Pexels
His reactions were priceless. “These pants are so tight! How do people breathe in these?” he said, making everyone laugh.
I handed him a shirt. “Just try it on, Stuart. You’ll look great.”
He reluctantly took the clothes and went into the changing room. A few minutes later, he came out, looking unsure. “How do I look?” he asked.
A man looking at outfits curiously | Source: Freepik
“Wow, Stuart, you look fantastic!” I said, giving him a thumbs up. The staff nodded in agreement.
Stuart looked at himself in the mirror, turning this way and that. “I feel like I’m wearing someone else’s clothes,” he said with a laugh. “But they do look nice.”
An older man in a suit | Source: Midjourney
“Exactly, that’s the point,” I said. “You deserve to feel good about yourself.”
After trying on a few more outfits and making everyone laugh with his witty comments, Stuart finally settled on an outfit that made him feel comfortable yet stylish.
“I think I’ll stick with this one,” he said, smiling.
A confident elderly man in a suit | Source: Pexels
“Great choice,” I said. “You’re looking sharp, my friend.”
Stuart’s confidence seemed to grow even more. “Thanks, Mark. I really appreciate this,” he said, enveloping me in a hug.
“No problem. We’re just getting started,” I said, feeling excited about what was to come.
An elderly man hugging a young man | Source: Pexels
With Stuart looking sharp, we decided to grab dinner at a cozy café.
As we walked in, Stuart seemed nervous. “I haven’t been to a place like this in years,” he admitted.
“Relax, Stuart. It’s just dinner. Enjoy it,” I said, guiding him to a table.
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We sat down and ordered some food. While we waited, I pulled out my phone. “How about we set up a date for you?” I suggested.
“A date? You’re serious?” Stuart asked, his eyes widening.
“Why not? Let’s give it a shot,” I said, smiling.
A happy man using his phone | Source: Pexels
I registered him on a dating site and quickly set up a profile. Within minutes, we got a response from a woman named Linda. She agreed to meet us at the café.
When Linda arrived, she seemed interested at first. Stuart stood up and introduced himself, looking a bit nervous. “Hi, I’m Stuart,” he said, offering his hand.
A beautiful senior woman | Source: Freepik
Linda shook his hand, but her smile faded as we talked. When she found out Stuart was homeless, her expression changed.
“You should have been honest,” she said, standing up abruptly.
“Wait, Linda, he’s a great guy,” I tried to explain, but she was already walking out the door.
Stuart sat back down, looking dejected.
An elderly man looking sad | Source: Pexels
“I’m sorry, Stuart,” I said, feeling bad for him.
To my surprise, he smiled. “It’s alright, Mark. Today is still one of the best days of my life. It reminded me of when I used to go out with friends and meet girls.”
I didn’t know what to do at that point. I had promised him I would help him find a family, and I knew that I had failed to do so.
But the next morning, on my way to work, I saw something that made me stop in my tracks.
A man walking on a road | Source: Pexels
Stuart was sitting outside a supermarket, chatting with a woman. They were both smiling and laughing.
I walked over, curious. “Hey, Stuart!” I called out, waving.
“Mark! Good to see you,” Stuart replied, standing up and giving me a big smile. “I want you to meet Maria.”
A happy elderly couple | Source: Pexels
Maria stood up and shook my hand. “Hi, Mark. It’s nice to meet you,” she said warmly.
“Nice to meet you too, Maria,” I said, looking at Stuart with a raised eyebrow. “Where did you two meet?”
“Believe it or not, we met last night after the date fiasco,” Stuart said with a chuckle. “Maria was kind enough to sit and talk with me. We’ve been chatting ever since.”
Maria smiled at Stuart. “Stuart told me everything. I’ve had my own struggles, so I understand where he’s coming from.”
A couple holding hands | Source: Pexels
I felt a surge of happiness and pride. “That’s wonderful to hear,” I said, genuinely moved. “You two seem to get along really well.”
“We do,” Stuart said, looking at Maria with a grateful smile. “Thanks to you, Mark. That bet led to something really good.”
“I’m just glad to see you happy, Stuart. You deserve this,” I said, and we shared a hug.
A happy man | Source: Pexels
I still can’t believe it all happened.
Life has a funny way of surprising us, doesn’t it? Stuart found a friend, and maybe even a family, through a series of events that started with a lost wallet. And I learned that sometimes, all it takes is a little compassion to change someone’s life.
Have you ever witnessed something like this or changed someone’s life for the better?
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