Lucie Arnaz is proud of her ‘15,695 days’ marriage and ‘5 kids’ – she survived famous parents’ horrible divorce

Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz are perhaps one of the most famous couples in television history. Their romance continued off-screen as well. Their marriage was famously tumultuous, and no one knows that better than their daughter Lucie Arnaz.

Keep reading to know more about their daughter and how her life turned out over the years.

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Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz were perhaps the most beloved couple on American television at one time. Their show I Love Lucy depicted them as the Ricardos, a middle-class couple that were the ideal nuclear family.

The show had six seasons and ran from 1951 to 1957. It followed Lucille as Lucy Ricardo, a housewife who always gets into hilarious situations. While the couple seemed perfect in their on-screen depiction, in real life, their relationship was quite volatile.

The former Broadway star and the Cuban bandleader met while filming Too Many Girls. Their whirlwind six-month romance led to an elopement and marriage in November 1940.

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After over a decade of their marriage, the couple became parents to daughter Lucie Arnaz, born on July 17, 1951. Two years after that, on January 19, 1953, they became parents to their second child, their son Desi Arnaz Jr.

The two children joined their parents in the family business of acting. They starred alongside their mother in the spin-off shows for I Love Lucy. Then in May 1961, after nearly two decades together, the couple filed for divorce.

It took years for Lucie Arnaz to open up about the reality of her parents’ marriage and their subsequent divorce. She revealed in a 2018 interview how “They were fighting all the time when we were growing up. There was a lot of anger and screaming.”

She lamented at her childhood where she had to deal with so many issues, she said, “Their divorce was horrible. And then there was the alcoholism. I had preferred those things had never been there. We didn’t have any abuse, but we did go through some pretty hard stuff, and that’s why my parents didn’t stay together. “

Lucille felt the split even more than perhaps her husband because she felt she had shattered the perception the American public had of her. She remarried soon after to comedian Gary Morton.

In her early twenties in 1971, Lucie Arnaz tied the knot to “The Doctors” actor Philip Vandervort Menegaux. The marriage ended in divorce five years later

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But the younger Arnaz’s second try at marriage was much more lasting. She met and married actor and writer Laurence Luckinbill. Now the couple has been together for over four decades.

On June 22, 2023, Lucie celebrated her 43rd wedding anniversary with Luckinbill. She took to Instagram to remember the day many decades ago that she was last single on an apple farm in the coastal city of Kingston, New York.

Their friends and family arrived at the venue in a “big yellow school bus.” She was wearing a “lovely cream crocheted gown” as her father walked her down the aisle. She continued in her post, “…[I] vowed to love Laurence Luckinbill till death us do part. 15,695 days, 5 kids, and three grandchildren later, I am proud to still say,’‘ I do.’”

The Murder, She Wrote actress is still very much in love with her husband. She dedicated a sweet post to him on his 88th birthday late last year in November 2022. She posted a picture of him and wrote how he was “kind, talented, adorable, wise, [and] sexy.”

Luckinbill had two children from a previous marriage; Nicholas Luckinbill and Benjamin Luckinbill. And him and Lucie had three more children together; two sons and a daughter.

Their first child together Simon Thomas Luckinbill was born in December 1980, Joseph Henry Luckinbill was born on New Year’s Eve 1982, and their daughter Katharine Desirée Luckinbill was born on January 11, 1985.

Lucie Arnaz and her husband live in Palm Springs, and their family lives nearby. These days the actress wears her hair in a short pixie cut and spends her time with her beloved grandchildren.

On Grandparents Day in 2019, Arnaz joked about hitting the “jackpot” when the couple welcomed their first two grandchildren just four weeks apart from one another. Since then, they have welcomed many more grandchildren to their brood.

Lucie has been a second-generation actor. She was only 11 years old when she starred alongside her mother in The Lucy Show at 11 opposite her mother, which they then followed up with Here’s Lucy.

She also played the main character in the television movie Who Is the Black Dahlia? and also led in the short-lived comedy The Lucie Arnaz Show in 1985 as psychologist Dr. Jane Lucas.

She has played other roles in guest starring parts in shows such as, Marcus Welby, M.D., Murder, She Wrote, Fantasy Island, Law & Order, and the reboot of Will & Grace.

She has also been credited as a producer in three stories related to her parents. Lucy and Desi: A Home Movie, I Love Lucy’s 50th Anniversary Special, and Being the Ricardos. She also produced the 2003 documentary The Desilu Story.

In June 2023 she revealed that she will be doing an encore of her cabaret act titled I Got The Job! Songs From My Musical Past, at 54 Below in New York City. She had performed the show before the pandemic to a sold-out crowd.

While Lucie is very public about her life, her little brother Desi Arnaz Jr. is quite private about his. When Lucille Ball was pregnant with Arnaz Jr, her pregnancy was written into the show. And as fate would have it, she gave birth to him the same day the episode aired in which her character gave birth to ‘Little Ricky.’

My Husband Quit His Job Because He Was Sick—I Trusted Him and Gave Him All My Money for Treatment, Until the Truth Came Out

They say love makes you blind, and I guess I was living proof of that. When my husband, Kyle, quit his job, claiming he was sick, I trusted him without question. I worked harder and gave him every dollar I had. But the truth I uncovered? It shattered everything.

When you love someone, you never expect them to lie. Especially about something as serious as their health. But looking back, I should have seen the signs.

I missed them all until a stranger rolled down her car window and told me something I never saw coming.

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A woman in her house | Source: Midjourney

Being a mom and wife has always been my pride and joy. My days were a whirlwind of work, chores, and family time, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

I’m a project manager at a software company, and I really love my job. It pays me enough to support my little family.

Our two boys, Liam and Jake, are my biggest motivators.

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Two brothers standing together | Source: Midjourney

Liam, 12, has a curious mind and a talent for science. He’s always tinkering with gadgets or asking a million questions about how things work. Meanwhile, Jake, 10, is our little athlete. He’s the kind of kid who’s always kicking a soccer ball or racing his bike around the neighborhood.

And then there’s Kyle, my husband of 15 years.

Kyle has always been my rock. He’s the calm to my chaos, the steady presence that keeps our family grounded.

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A man looking straight ahead | Source: Midjourney

He worked as an operations manager at a logistics company, a job that kept him busy but provided well for us.

There were times when I’d look at him across the dinner table, watching him laugh with the boys or share stories about his day, and think, I’m so lucky.

Life was good.

But that all changed one afternoon when Kyle walked through the front door, holding a folder in his hands and looking like he’d seen a ghost.

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A worried man | Source: Midjourney

“Hey, you’re home early,” I said, glancing up from my laptop. But the moment I saw his expression, I knew something was wrong.

His face was pale, his lips pressed tightly together as he set the folder down on the table.

“Kyle? What happened?” I stood and walked over to him, my heart pounding in my chest. “Is everything okay?”

He looked up at me, and his eyes had this look I couldn’t quite figure out.

Was it fear? Regret? I still don’t know.

“Laura,” he began, his voice shaky, “I have muscular dystrophy.”

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A worried man looking straight ahead | Source: Midjourney

I froze. “What?”

He sat down heavily, rubbing his face with both hands.

“I’ve been feeling off for months. I went to the doctor, ran some tests… This is why I’ve been so tired.”

I didn’t know what to say.

“I can’t work anymore,” he continued. “I’ll need expensive treatment, but it’s my only chance.”

For a moment, I couldn’t breathe. Muscular dystrophy. The words echoed in my mind, making my stomach twist.

I sat down across from him, reaching for the folder.

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A person holding a folder | Source: Pexels

Inside were test results, doctor’s notes, and medical papers. Everything looked serious.

“I’m so sorry,” he whispered. “I didn’t want to tell you like this, but… I need to start treatment. I think we’ll need to cancel the trip with the boys. I hate to do this to them, but…”

I reached across the table, taking his hands in mine. “Kyle, stop. The boys will understand. We’ll figure this out. You’re going to get the treatment you need.”

Tears welled up in his eyes. “I hate that you have to deal with this.”

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A man looking away | Source: Midjourney

“I’m your wife,” I said, squeezing his hand. “We’ll get through this together.”

But as I sat there, staring at those papers, a cold, creeping fear settled over me. How would we afford this?

Later that night, as we lay in bed, I couldn’t stop thinking about it.

“We’ll need more money,” I murmured, staring at the ceiling.

Kyle turned to me. “Laura, I don’t want you working yourself to death for me.”

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A worried man looking at his wife in bed | Source: Midjourney

“I can handle it.” I turned to face him, determination in my eyes. “I’ll get a part-time job after work. We’ll cut back on expenses. You’ll quit your job and focus on your health.”

His lip quivered. “You’d do that for me?”

“Of course.”

The next day, I went to a neighborhood restaurant and got a job cleaning tables in the evenings. After finishing my day at the software company, I’d head straight there to clean.

It was exhausting, but I didn’t care.

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A person cleaning a countertop | Source: Pexels

I handed almost all the money I made to Kyle for his treatment. And I could see how he was changing. He looked happier and more relaxed.

Seeing that gave me the strength to keep going, even when I felt like collapsing from exhaustion.

The routine became second nature. Work all day, clean tables at night, and fall into bed exhausted.

I was running on fumes, but every time I saw Kyle smile or heard him say, “Thank you for everything, Laura,” it felt worth it.

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A couple holding hands | Source: Pexels

He kept going to his treatments during the weekdays while I was at work.

“It’s best if I go alone,” he’d say. “I don’t want you missing work for this.”

I never questioned it. I trusted him completely.

But then one evening, something strange happened.

I was on my way to the restaurant, clutching my coat against the chilly wind when a white SUV pulled up next to me. The window rolled down slowly and inside sat a striking woman with dark glasses and perfectly styled hair.

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A white SUV | Source: Pexels

She leaned over the passenger seat. “Are you Laura?”

I froze, tightening my grip on my bag. “Yes… Who’s asking?”

She took off her sunglasses, revealing sharp, piercing eyes. “Is Kyle your husband?”

“Yes,” I said. “Why? Is he okay?”

The woman tilted her head slightly, a knowing smirk playing on her lips. “Oh, he’s more than okay. But you should really check where he goes for his ‘treatments.’ And while you’re at it, look at his bank statements.”

I blinked, stunned. “What? Who are you? What are you talking about?”

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A worried woman | Source: Midjourney

She pressed her lips together like she was debating how much to say.

“Let’s just say I’m doing you a favor,” she said before rolling the window back up. The SUV then drove off, leaving me standing on the sidewalk in a daze.

What the heck was that about?

The whole walk to the restaurant, her words echoed in my mind. Why would a random woman say something like that? And how did she know Kyle?

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A woman walking on a street at night | Source: Pexels

When I got home that night, Kyle was already asleep.

I sat at the kitchen table, staring at the clock, my mind racing. Something about that encounter wasn’t sitting right with me.

The next morning, Kyle grabbed his usual bag and kissed me on the cheek before heading out.

“I’ll be back around three,” he said. “I’ve got two procedures today. The other one’s at night.”

“At night?” I asked.

“Yeah, my therapist scheduled a special session today.”

“Okay,” I said, forcing a smile. “Take care.”

As soon as he left, I went straight to his laptop. My hands shook as I opened his banking app. I told myself I wasn’t snooping. I just needed peace of mind.

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A woman using her husband’s laptop | Source: Pexels

But as I scrolled through the transactions, my stomach dropped.

There were no payments to medical facilities. No hospital charges. No doctor’s fees. Nothing.

Instead, I saw restaurant bills, golf club memberships, expensive clothing stores, and even a charge for a weekend trip to a resort I’d never heard of.

What the heck?

I scrolled faster, hoping I was missing something. But it was all there in black and white.

Kyle wasn’t paying for treatments. He was spending our money on luxury items. Things we never discussed. Things I never approved.

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A woman looking surprised while using her husband’s laptop | Source: Midjourney

By the time I closed the laptop, I was trembling. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing.

Later that evening, I decided to follow him when he left for his “special session.”

I stayed a safe distance behind, my heart pounding with every step.

But Kyle didn’t go to a hospital or a clinic.

He went to a small bar downtown. The kind of place where people went to relax and unwind.

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A neon ‘bar’ sign | Source: Pexels

I stood outside that bar, frozen in place, watching Kyle laugh and joke with his friends. It felt like I was watching a stranger. The man inside wasn’t the sick, struggling husband I thought I knew.

He was someone else entirely.

I took a deep breath and stepped closer to the window, just in time to hear him speak.

“I told you I could do nothing for three months,” Kyle said, raising his glass. “And you were wrong!”

His friends burst out laughing, clinking their glasses together.

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A man laughing | Source: Pexels

“Man, I still can’t believe you pulled this off,” one of them said. “Your wife really bought it?”

Kyle chuckled, leaning back in his chair. “Hook, line, and sinker. Told her I was too sick to work. Now I’ve got all the time in the world to hang out with you guys.”

They laughed again, loud and carefree, while my heart shattered into pieces.

“And she’s still giving you money?” another friend asked, shaking his head in disbelief.

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A man sitting in a bar | Source: Midjourney

“Yep.” Kyle took a sip of his wine, looking smug. “She even picked up a part-time job to make sure I’m covered. I gotta say, being married to someone so gullible has its perks.”

His words cut through me like a knife. My mind reeled with images of him sitting at home, watching me rush from one job to the next, while he lived it up with his friends.

I couldn’t take it anymore. I turned around and walked away as tears blurred my vision.

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A woman standing outside a bar | Source: Midjourney

As I was about to head back home, I saw the same white SUV outside the bar. The woman from before rolled down her window when she saw me.

“Did you see it?” she asked softly.

I nodded, unable to speak.

She sighed. “I’m sorry you had to find out this way. My boyfriend is one of his friends. When I heard what they were doing… I couldn’t stay silent. You deserved to know.”

I wiped my eyes, trying to compose myself. “Thank you.”

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An upset woman looking straight ahead | Source: Midjourney

That night, I said nothing to Kyle.

I sat through dinner, listening to his usual stories about “difficult procedures” and “promising results.”

But the next morning, I took action.

I called his office and told them he was well enough to return to work.

Then, I went to the bank and froze our joint account. With the remaining money, I paid off our mortgage and opened a new account in my name.

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A woman walking on a street | Source: Pexels

When I was done, I sent Kyle a text.

It read, Kyle, treat your vanity and your cruelty — that’s your real illness. Don’t bother coming home.

Then, I packed my things, changed the front door lock, and took the boys with me to my parents’ place. I didn’t want to see Kyle’s face again.

He tried calling me for weeks, but I didn’t talk to him. Instead, I filed for divorce, and now I’m waiting for it to be processed so I can get rid of the man who betrayed me in a way that I could’ve never imagined.

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A young woman | Source: Midjourney

If you enjoyed reading this story, here’s another one you might like: They say secrets can destroy a marriage. When I discovered my husband had secretly bought a second house, I braced myself for the worst. But nothing could prepare me for what I found when I drove there. I ended up crying at the sight, and there was nothing that could console me.

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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