Calling someone “fat” can be a hurtful insult. But why is that?
This question came up when a mother named Allison shared her story about a recent swimming trip with her children. When her daughter called her fat, 30-year-old Allison had a clever response, and her message is now spreading quickly online.
Allison Kimmey began dieting when she was just 14 years old. She managed to stay at a size two to four through graduate school, but it was tough, and she wasn’t happy. Three years ago, at age 27, Allison reached a size eight and realized she would be much happier if she stopped fighting against her weight gain.
To motivate herself, Allison started an Instagram account, @allisonkimmey, where she shares pictures and inspirational messages. Her body positivity spreads joy and encourages her followers, but her important message doesn’t always reach everyone.
**Me:** “Actually, everyone, every single person in the world has fat. But each of us has different amounts.”
**Her brother:** “Oh right! I have some to protect my big muscles! But you have more than me.”
**Me:** “Yes, that’s true. Some people have a lot, and others don’t have much. But that doesn’t mean one person is better than the other. Do you both understand?”
**Both:** “Yes, mama.”
**Me:** “So can you repeat what I said?”
**Them:** “Yes! I shouldn’t say someone is fat because you can’t just be fat, but everyone HAS fat, and it’s okay to have different fat.”
**Me:** “Exactly right!”
Not only did Allison want to teach her children how to talk to others, but she also felt it was important to spread the message that everyone is equal, no matter their body shape. Now, her post on Instagram has gone viral.
“If I shame my children for saying it, then I’m proving that it’s an insulting word and continuing the stigma that being fat is unworthy, gross, comical, and undesirable,” writes Allison.
Four Years after My Husband Went Missing, a Dog Brought Me the Jacket He Was Wearing on the Day He Disappeared
Maggie had mourned her husband Jason for four years, believing he was lost in the wilderness, until their old dog, Scout, returned carrying Jason’s worn jacket. This unexpected sign filled her with hope and drove her to follow Scout deep into the forest. She could never have prepared for what she’d find.
In the fading daylight, Scout led her to a hidden cabin, and inside was Jason, alive and seemingly well—living a new life with a woman named Sarah. Jason greeted her with a calm, unsettling indifference, explaining that he’d found “something real” here. His rehearsed words unraveled Maggie’s years of grief into raw betrayal. She’d raised their children alone, clinging to his memory, only to learn he had chosen to abandon them.
Without another word, she turned away from the man she no longer knew, her heart hardened by his betrayal. The next morning, she took control of her future, sitting across from a lawyer to finalize the end of her marriage and demand support for their children. Reclaiming her life, Maggie resolved to forge a path built on love, resilience, and integrity, moving forward without a single glance back.
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