When I got a notification that nearly all our savings had been drained from our joint account, I assumed it was a hack or a mistake. It wasn’t. My husband, Mark, had done the unthinkable, and what I did next ensured he’d never forget it.
There’s a saying that you can tell a lot about a man by the way he treats his mother.
In Mark’s case, I learned that sometimes, a man can treat his mother too well. For years, I let it slide, but this time, he crossed a line so bold it couldn’t be ignored.
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To be honest, Mark wasn’t a bad man.
He was a decent father, a loyal husband, and a diligent worker. But there was one glaring flaw in his otherwise steady demeanor. His mother, Melissa.
At 71, she wielded an influence over him that defied logic.
If Melissa wanted something, Mark would find a way to make it happen, no matter how ridiculous or inconvenient it might be.
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One time, she decided she needed a new car, and Mark co-signed a loan we could barely afford.
Another time, she convinced him to buy her a state-of-the-art recliner because “her back couldn’t take the old one anymore.”
These decisions, while irritating, never truly jeopardized our marriage.
But this time was different.
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That day began like any other.
I was at work, finishing up my shift, when my phone buzzed with a text. It was a notification from the bank stating that nearly all the money in our joint savings account had been withdrawn.
My stomach dropped.
At first, I thought it had to be a fraud. My mind raced through every worst-case scenario. Was our account hacked? Had someone stolen our details?
I immediately called the bank officer who managed our savings account to report the issue.
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“Jessica, the withdrawal was processed in person,” he said, his voice calm and professional.
“In person?” I asked, my pulse quickening.
“Yes, ma’am. Your husband came in earlier today to transfer the funds to another account. Was that not authorized?”
“Oh, right,” I said, pretending I knew about it. “I must’ve forgotten. Thank you.”
My hands trembled as I hung up.
Why would Mark empty our savings account? What emergency could possibly justify taking nearly everything we had worked so hard to save? And that too behind my back?
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I debated calling him immediately but decided against it. This was a conversation that needed to happen face-to-face.
When Mark walked through the door that evening, I could feel something was off. He had that nervous energy about him like a child trying to avoid eye contact with a teacher after breaking a rule.
“How was your day?” I asked, my voice calm despite the storm brewing inside me.
“Fine, fine,” he replied, setting his keys on the counter without looking up.
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“Great,” I said. “So, maybe you can tell me why you emptied our joint savings account without so much as a word?”
He froze mid-step, his back to me. Then he slowly turned but hesitated to make eye contact.
“Oh. That.”
“Yes, that, Mark,” I said as my voice trembled.
“Look, honey,” he started, scratching the back of his neck. “It’s for the family. For the long term.”
“What. Did. You. Do?” I demanded.
And that’s when he said it. His tone was so casual, you’d think he was talking about picking up milk from the store.
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“I gave the money to my mother because she needed it to buy a country house. It’s an investment, really. She said it’ll be ours when she passes, and until then, she’ll rent it out for income. She needed it more than us right now.”
For a moment, I didn’t react. I just stood there as I tried to process what he’d just said.
“You what?” My voice came out in a low whisper, though it sounded like it was coming from a million miles away.
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Mark shifted on his feet, as if he were trying to downplay the gravity of what he’d just admitted.
“It’s not a big deal, Jess,” he said. “She’s family. And you know, the house will eventually be ours anyway. It’s like an early inheritance.”
“An early inheritance?” I repeated. “Are you serious?”
“Yes!” He gestured with his hands like he was explaining something to a child. “She’s going to rent it out, and the income will help her cover expenses. And when the time comes…”
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“When the time comes?” I interrupted, slamming my hands down on the kitchen counter. “Mark, that was our money! Money we worked for, saved for, and planned to use for emergencies. For us. Not for your mother to play landlord with!”
“It’s not like we needed it right now,” he muttered, avoiding my eyes.
“Not like we needed it right now?” I repeated, my voice rising. “Mark, you didn’t even ask me! You emptied our savings account, our life savings, without so much as a conversation. Do you have any idea how betrayed I feel right now?”
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“It’s not like I was trying to hurt you, Jess,” he said. “I thought you’d understand.”
“Understand?” I laughed. “You think I’d understand you giving away all our money to your mother? For a house? Without even consulting me?”
Mark sighed, rubbing his temples like he was the one who had to deal with the problem. “Look, I know it seems bad now, but in the long run, this is a good thing for the family. She’s family, Jess. She needed help.”
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“And what about this family, Mark?” I shot back, motioning between the two of us. “What about the future we’re supposed to be building together? Do I not matter in your plans for the ‘long run’?”
“It’s not like that,” he began. “I just didn’t want to burden you with the decision. I thought…”
“You thought wrong,” I cut him off.
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I stared at him as my eyes searched for some hint of remorse. Some sign that he realized just how much damage he’d done.
But all I saw was a man who thought he’d done the right thing, even if it meant betraying his partner.
That’s when I knew.
If Mark couldn’t see the problem here, I would have to make him see it. And I would have to do it in a way he’d never forget.
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The next morning, I woke up with a clear head and a sharper resolve than I’d felt in years. Mark had crossed a line, and if he thought a half-hearted apology and some empty promises would fix this, he had another thing coming.
I started by gathering information.
You see, revenge isn’t about anger. It’s about strategy. And my strategy required precision.
First, I paid a visit to the county records office.
It didn’t take long to find what I was looking for. I was there for Melissa’s new country house, purchased outright with our hard-earned savings.
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That was the first time I saw the property. It was a small but picturesque house with a neatly fenced yard. I made a copy of every document I could find and left without a shred of guilt.
Next, I scheduled a meeting with the bank manager.
It turns out that Mark had made one critical oversight: while he’d emptied the bulk of our savings, he hadn’t closed the account entirely. There were still a few hundred dollars left, and more importantly, my name was still attached to the account.
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Legally, I had just as much claim to the funds and the assets they’d been used to purchase, as he did.
With the bank’s information in hand, I moved on to the next phase of my plan.
I hired a lawyer, but it wasn’t just any lawyer. It was the best one in town.
A sharp, no-nonsense woman named Linda who had a reputation for leaving no stone unturned.
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“Let me get this straight,” Linda said during our first meeting. “Your husband used joint funds to buy a house for his mother, without your knowledge or consent?”
“That’s right,” I replied.
Linda’s eyes gleamed. “Well, that’s a textbook breach of fiduciary duty in a marriage. We can work with this.”
Over the next few weeks, Linda and I built our case.
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In states that follow equitable distribution laws, any asset purchased during a marriage, even if it’s in someone else’s name, can be considered marital property if joint funds were used.
Mark had no idea that his “investment” had essentially tied Melissa’s precious house to our divorce proceedings.
While I worked quietly behind the scenes, Mark went about his days as though nothing had happened. I guess he believed the storm had passed, and I let him think that.
Two months later, everything was ready. The court proceedings had been tense, to say the least.
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Mark had been served with the divorce papers and had hired his own lawyer, who tried to argue that the house was solely his mother’s property. But the evidence was undeniable. Our joint funds had been used to purchase the house, and as such, it was considered marital property.
The judge ultimately ruled that Mark’s actions had breached his responsibilities as a spouse by unilaterally using our savings without my consent.
As part of the divorce settlement, I was granted half ownership of the property.
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Mark’s reaction in court was explosive. As the judge ruled in my favor, he slammed his hands on the table, his face red with rage.
“This is ridiculous!” he shouted, glaring at me like I’d betrayed him. His lawyer tried to calm him, but Mark’s fury only grew.
“You’re destroying this family, Jessica!” he spat as we left the courtroom.
“Oh no, Mark,” I said coolly. “You did that all on your own.”
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A few weeks later, I drove out to the country house while Melissa was out of town.
Over there, I met Steve, the man who wanted to purchase my half of the house. We finalized the deal right there, while Melissa and Mark had no idea what I was up to.
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A week later, Melissa returned and found Steve’s pickup truck parked in the driveway, three dogs lounging in the yard, and a bonfire pit smoldering in the back.
She called me, screaming, “What have you done?”
“I sold my half, Melissa,” I said calmly. “It’s not my problem anymore.”
Mark called next, ranting about “family betrayal,” but I hung up mid-sentence.
Now divorced, I’ve never felt freer. My revenge was complete, and for once, the cost was all theirs to bear.
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Lucie Arnaz is proud of her ‘15,695 days’ marriage and ‘5 kids’ – she survived famous parents’ horrible divorce
Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz are perhaps one of the most famous couples in television history. Their romance continued off-screen as well. Their marriage was famously tumultuous, and no one knows that better than their daughter Lucie Arnaz.
Keep reading to know more about their daughter and how her life turned out over the years.
Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz were perhaps the most beloved couple on American television at one time. Their show I Love Lucy depicted them as the Ricardos, a middle-class couple that were the ideal nuclear family.
The show had six seasons and ran from 1951 to 1957. It followed Lucille as Lucy Ricardo, a housewife who always gets into hilarious situations. While the couple seemed perfect in their on-screen depiction, in real life, their relationship was quite volatile.
The former Broadway star and the Cuban bandleader met while filming Too Many Girls. Their whirlwind six-month romance led to an elopement and marriage in November 1940.
After over a decade of their marriage, the couple became parents to daughter Lucie Arnaz, born on July 17, 1951. Two years after that, on January 19, 1953, they became parents to their second child, their son Desi Arnaz Jr.
The two children joined their parents in the family business of acting. They starred alongside their mother in the spin-off shows for I Love Lucy. Then in May 1961, after nearly two decades together, the couple filed for divorce.
It took years for Lucie Arnaz to open up about the reality of her parents’ marriage and their subsequent divorce. She revealed in a 2018 interview how “They were fighting all the time when we were growing up. There was a lot of anger and screaming.”
She lamented at her childhood where she had to deal with so many issues, she said, “Their divorce was horrible. And then there was the alcoholism. I had preferred those things had never been there. We didn’t have any abuse, but we did go through some pretty hard stuff, and that’s why my parents didn’t stay together. “
Lucille felt the split even more than perhaps her husband because she felt she had shattered the perception the American public had of her. She remarried soon after to comedian Gary Morton.
In her early twenties in 1971, Lucie Arnaz tied the knot to “The Doctors” actor Philip Vandervort Menegaux. The marriage ended in divorce five years later
But the younger Arnaz’s second try at marriage was much more lasting. She met and married actor and writer Laurence Luckinbill. Now the couple has been together for over four decades.
On June 22, 2023, Lucie celebrated her 43rd wedding anniversary with Luckinbill. She took to Instagram to remember the day many decades ago that she was last single on an apple farm in the coastal city of Kingston, New York.
Their friends and family arrived at the venue in a “big yellow school bus.” She was wearing a “lovely cream crocheted gown” as her father walked her down the aisle. She continued in her post, “…[I] vowed to love Laurence Luckinbill till death us do part. 15,695 days, 5 kids, and three grandchildren later, I am proud to still say,’‘ I do.’”
The Murder, She Wrote actress is still very much in love with her husband. She dedicated a sweet post to him on his 88th birthday late last year in November 2022. She posted a picture of him and wrote how he was “kind, talented, adorable, wise, [and] sexy.”
Luckinbill had two children from a previous marriage; Nicholas Luckinbill and Benjamin Luckinbill. And him and Lucie had three more children together; two sons and a daughter.
Their first child together Simon Thomas Luckinbill was born in December 1980, Joseph Henry Luckinbill was born on New Year’s Eve 1982, and their daughter Katharine Desirée Luckinbill was born on January 11, 1985.
Lucie Arnaz and her husband live in Palm Springs, and their family lives nearby. These days the actress wears her hair in a short pixie cut and spends her time with her beloved grandchildren.
On Grandparents Day in 2019, Arnaz joked about hitting the “jackpot” when the couple welcomed their first two grandchildren just four weeks apart from one another. Since then, they have welcomed many more grandchildren to their brood.
Lucie has been a second-generation actor. She was only 11 years old when she starred alongside her mother in The Lucy Show at 11 opposite her mother, which they then followed up with Here’s Lucy.
She also played the main character in the television movie Who Is the Black Dahlia? and also led in the short-lived comedy The Lucie Arnaz Show in 1985 as psychologist Dr. Jane Lucas.
She has played other roles in guest starring parts in shows such as, Marcus Welby, M.D., Murder, She Wrote, Fantasy Island, Law & Order, and the reboot of Will & Grace.
She has also been credited as a producer in three stories related to her parents. Lucy and Desi: A Home Movie, I Love Lucy’s 50th Anniversary Special, and Being the Ricardos. She also produced the 2003 documentary The Desilu Story.
In June 2023 she revealed that she will be doing an encore of her cabaret act titled I Got The Job! Songs From My Musical Past, at 54 Below in New York City. She had performed the show before the pandemic to a sold-out crowd.
While Lucie is very public about her life, her little brother Desi Arnaz Jr. is quite private about his. When Lucille Ball was pregnant with Arnaz Jr, her pregnancy was written into the show. And as fate would have it, she gave birth to him the same day the episode aired in which her character gave birth to ‘Little Ricky.’
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