My Husband Told Me to Move Into the Guest Room So His Mom Could Have Our Bed

When Phoebe’s mother-in-law moves in for the week, she doesn’t just take the guest room. No, she takes Phoebe’s entire bedroom. And her husband, Jake, lets it happen. But if they want to treat her like a guest in her own home, she’ll show them exactly what checking out looks like.

I was actually excited when Doreen announced she was coming to stay for a week.

I fluffed the pillows in the guest room, put out fresh towels, and even stocked the bathroom with lavender-scented soap because I was feeling extra generous.

A beautiful guest bedroom | Source: Midjourney

A beautiful guest bedroom | Source: Midjourney

To top it off, I made her a batch of scones and cranberry and chocolate muffins. I was on my A-game.

This was my mother-in-law, after all. I wanted her to feel welcome.

What I didn’t realize, though, was that she was planning a hostile takeover.

Food on a kitchen counter | Source: Midjourney

Food on a kitchen counter | Source: Midjourney

That afternoon, I came home from work thinking that Doreen would have made us dinner. Secretly, I was hoping for her delicious stew and homemade rolls.

But it turned out that she had something else cooking.

I got into the quiet house, and stepped into my room, wanting to change into sweatpants and a sweater.

A pot of stew | Source: Midjourney

A pot of stew | Source: Midjourney

But instead of finding my room as it should have been, I found Doreen.

She was standing in the middle of my bedroom, happily unpacking her suitcase…

While tossing my clothes on the floor!

An older woman standing in front of a closet | Source: Midjourney

An older woman standing in front of a closet | Source: Midjourney

My dresses? Crumpled into a heap.

My shoes? Shoved into laundry baskets.

Her things? Neatly hung up in my closet like she owned the place.

For a moment, my brain refused to process what I was seeing.

A pile of clothing on the floor | Source: Midjourney

A pile of clothing on the floor | Source: Midjourney

This woman hadn’t just taken over the room, she had erased me from it.

“Oh! Good. You’re back, Phoebe!” she chirped, barely glancing at me. “Be a sweetheart and move your stuff to the guest room, would you? There’s hardly any space in here with all my things.”

I just stared at her, still trying to understand how we got here.

Then Jake walked in, carrying her second suitcase like some hotel bellhop.

A shocked woman standing in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

A shocked woman standing in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

“Hey, Pheebs,” he said, like this was all completely normal. “Can you clear out of the room? Mom needs to rest. She’s had a long flight. You can set up in the guest room for the week. I’ll be in my office because you know my back can’t handle the guest room bed.”

There was my husband, talking to me like I was the intruder. Like I was someone he could just push around. Like my name wasn’t on the mortgage.

“I’m sorry, what?” I blinked. “You were saying?”

A man standing in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

A man standing in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

Jake sighed deeply. It was like I was being difficult.

“Come on, Phoebe, it’s not a big deal, babe.”

He set Doreen’s suitcase down at the foot of my bed and straightened up.

“Mom is used to better accommodations, and we want her to be comfortable. It’s only a week, Phoebe. You’ll survive the guest room.”

A suitcase in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

A suitcase in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

I’d survive the guest room? I couldn’t believe that this was coming from Jake. Moments ago, he had complained about the bed in the guest room, and now I was supposed to go in there and sleep like everything was fine?

What about what I was used to? What about… me?

I turned back to Doreen. She had already settled onto my bed, propped up against my pillows, scrolling on her phone like a queen in her palace.

“Honestly, dear,” Doreen said, not even looking up from her phone. “It’s the least you could do. Family takes care of family, after all.”

An older woman sitting on a bed | Source: Midjourney

An older woman sitting on a bed | Source: Midjourney

I felt something hot and bitter rise in my throat.

Family.

Funny how “family” only applies when I’m the one being inconvenienced.

“So let me get this straight,” I said. My voice came out calm, steady. “Your solution to having a guest in our home… was to move me out of my own bedroom?”

Jake rubbed the back of his neck.

A frowning woman | Source: Midjourney

A frowning woman | Source: Midjourney

“Well, when you put it like that…”

“I literally just walked in and found my clothes in a pile on the floor,” I cut in, my voice sharper now.

I turned to Doreen.

“Did it ever even cross your mind to just, oh, I don’t know, stay in the guest room? I had it set up for you, too.”

Doreen finally looked at me, her expression shifting into something condescending and sickly sweet.

“Oh, honey. The guest room is far too small for me, Phoebe. It’s perfectly fine for you, though.”

An upset woman | Source: Midjourney

An upset woman | Source: Midjourney

“Oh, is it?” I laughed.

I actually laughed out loud.

Jake shot me a warning look.

“Phoebe, let’s not make this a thing. Please.”

I looked at my husband. Like, I really looked at him.

A man standing in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

A man standing in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

The way he wouldn’t quite meet my eyes. The way he stood there, not on my side. The way he had known this was happening and didn’t think I deserved a conversation about it.

My chest felt tight.

This wasn’t just about the bed. It wasn’t even about the room. It was about respect and me realizing that I didn’t have any from them.

And suddenly?

A woman standing in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

A woman standing in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

I was done.

I didn’t yell. I didn’t argue. I just smiled.

Then, I walked to the guest room. Jake thought I was moving into the guest room?

Oh, I was moving, all right.

I grabbed a suitcase and packed a few essentials. I took some clothes, my toiletries, and my laptop. Then, I wrote a very special note and left it on the guest room nightstand.

A gray suitcase in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

A gray suitcase in a bedroom | Source: Midjourney

Since you two clearly have everything under control at home, I’ll leave you to it. Enjoy your week together. I’ll be back when the house feels like mine again.

Best of luck!

Then, I picked up my purse, turned my phone on silent, and walked out of the front door.

A note on a nightstand | Source: Midjourney

A note on a nightstand | Source: Midjourney

I didn’t go to my sister’s. I didn’t go to a friend’s.

Nah. There was no need for any of that.

Instead, I checked myself into a luxury hotel across town. I made sure that there was a spa, room service, and a king-sized bed that no one could try to steal out from under me.

And because life is all about balance, I booked it all on Jake’s credit card.

The interior of a hotel | Source: Midjourney

The interior of a hotel | Source: Midjourney

The steam curled around me, thick and warm, as I sank deeper into the plush chair of the relaxation lounge. Somewhere in the background, soft instrumental music played.

It was the kind of music that was designed to melt stress away.

“Your water, ma’am,” a soft voice said to my side. “It’s cucumber and lemon infused.”

I had been in the spa for hours. Wrapped in a robe. Slippers on my feet. And nothing but peace around me.

And yet?

A glass of lemon and cucumber water | Source: Midjourney

A glass of lemon and cucumber water | Source: Midjourney

I couldn’t relax.

The whole point of this, leaving my home and checking into a hotel, was to enjoy myself. To wash the situation off me like a bad dream.

But instead, I sat thinking about it all and how it had unfolded.

I exhaled slowly, staring down at my hands.

Why did it hurt so much?

A woman sitting in a spa | Source: Midjourney

A woman sitting in a spa | Source: Midjourney

It wasn’t just about my bedroom or about Doreen. It was about Jake.

It was about the way he had looked at me when I walked into that room. Like I was being unreasonable. Like I was the one making things difficult.

He had asked me to move like it was a favor. Like I wasn’t his wife, who deserved the same care and attention that his mother had received.

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A close up of a man | Source: Midjourney

I swallowed hard, pressing my fingertips against my temples.

For years, I had been accommodating. For years, I had let Doreen’s little jabs and subtle insults roll off my back. For years, I had told myself that “she didn’t mean it like that. Don’t make a big deal about it.”

And now?

Now she had tossed my clothes on the floor and made herself at home in my bedroom.

And Jake had let her!

I squeezed my eyes shut.

A woman at a spa | Source: Midjourney

A woman at a spa | Source: Midjourney

I married Jake because I thought he saw me. Because I thought he valued me. But today had proved something I didn’t want to admit.

I was an afterthought in Jake’s life.

I clenched my jaw and sat up straighter.

No.

I wasn’t going to sit here drowning in this. I wasn’t going to let this spiral into something that ate me alive.

A determined woman | Source: Midjourney

A determined woman | Source: Midjourney

I had left for a reason. And I had made my point. And if Jake wanted me back in that house, he was going to have to understand exactly why I left in the first place.

I took a slow sip of my water, letting the coolness settle in my chest.

For now?

I was going to finish my spa day.

But soon?

I was going to have a conversation Jake would never forget.

A woman having a spa treatment | Source: Midjourney

A woman having a spa treatment | Source: Midjourney

I walked through the front door of my house, dropped my bag onto the entryway table, and let the silence settle around me.

It smelled clean, like lemon-scented polish and fabric softener. Like someone had been desperately trying to make the house feel normal again.

Good.

A foyer | Source: Midjourney

A foyer | Source: Midjourney

I had only made it three steps into the living room before I saw him.

Jake was already waiting.

His arms were crossed, jaw tight. His dark circles told me that he hadn’t been sleeping well.

Good.

“Phoebe, you’re back,” he said, his voice unreadable.

A man sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney

A man sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney

“I live here, Jake,” I said simply.

Something flickered in his expression, but he masked it quickly.

“Well, thanks for finally coming home.”

“Oh, I’m sorry,” I said. “Did my absence inconvenience you?”

“You didn’t have to leave.”

A woman standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

A woman standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

I laughed.

“I didn’t?” I gestured toward the bedroom. “Jake, you and your mother literally kicked me out of my own bed. You didn’t ask. You didn’t suggest. You told me.”

He sighed.

“I didn’t mean it like that.”

“Then how did you mean it?” I challenged. “Because from where I was standing, it looked a hell of a lot like you were telling me I didn’t belong in my own damn home.”

A smiling older woman | Source: Midjourney

A smiling older woman | Source: Midjourney

Silence.

I could see my husband fighting with himself, wanting to defend his actions but also knowing I was right.

“I didn’t think it was a big deal,” he said finally.

I nodded slowly, absorbing the words. There it was.

“You didn’t think it was a big deal?” I repeated. “Of course, you didn’t. Because it wasn’t your bed being taken—you willingly gave it. Your clothes weren’t thrown to the floor, your cupboard was perfectly untouched…”

A man sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney

A man sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney

He flinched.

“Jake, you stood there and watched while she erased me from our space. You just let it happen.”

“That’s not what I meant to do,” he said, his expression finally cracking under the pressure.

“But it’s what you did.”

He swallowed, looking down. And for the first time, I could see it. The weight of everything sinking in.

A woman standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

A woman standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

“I thought I was keeping the peace,” he said.

We were both silent for a while.

“She left early, you know,” he said. “She said that she needed the cooking and cleaning to be done if she was going to be relaxed. She couldn’t handle the fact that she needed to do it.”

“I know,” I said. “I didn’t expect her to stick around long after I left. She just wanted to be waited on.”

A glum woman standing in a kitchen | Source: Midjourney

A glum woman standing in a kitchen | Source: Midjourney

“She crossed a line in this house, Phoebe,” he said suddenly.

“Yeah, Jake,” I said, holding his gaze. “She did. And so did you.”

He looked down again, nodding slightly.

For the first time since I had walked in, I saw it. The realization.

Not just that he had messed up. But why.

An upset man | Source: Midjourney

An upset man | Source: Midjourney

When he finally met my eyes again, he looked exhausted.

“I hate that you felt like you had to leave,” he admitted.

“I hate that I wasn’t made to feel like I could stay,” I continued.

Silence.

I watched him for a moment, gauging the sincerity. He meant it.

A woman standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

A woman standing in a living room | Source: Midjourney

“Good.”

“I’ll order takeout,” he said after a pause.

“Fine with me, Jake,” I said.

Then I walked past him toward our bedroom, where my clothes were back in place. Where my things were neatly put away. And where, finally, I belonged again.

Indian takeout on a kitchen counter | Source: Midjourney

Indian takeout on a kitchen counter | Source: Midjourney

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Snoop Dogg’s Heartfelt Tribute: Remembering His Beloved Grandkid Through Their 7 Cherished

Snoop Dogg is famous for his music, but his role as a grandfather shows a different side of him, one filled with joy, loss, and deep love for his family.

Born Calvin Cordozar Broadus Jr., Snoop Dogg has created a career that goes beyond just music; he is also a committed family man. He has been married to Shante Broadus since 1997 and is a father to four children: Corde, 30; Cordell, 27; Cori, 25; and Julian, 26, from a previous relationship.

Over the years, Snoop’s family has expanded, and he is now a proud grandfather, with each grandchild holding a special place in his heart. He is particularly devoted to keeping the memory of one grandchild who passed away alive, ensuring that their legacy continues in the family.

In 2007, Snoop shared his family values while promoting his reality show, “Snoop Dogg’s Father Hood,” which aimed to show the less visible side of hip-hop artists as family men.

Speaking to “People,” Snoop said, “I have kids, and I always play my music for them. I like to know what they like. They think I’m old, but I feel young.”

Looking back on his journey as a father, he said, “Ninety percent of rappers grew up without fathers, but most of them become fathers to their kids. We don’t often get credit for that. We become real men when we reach this point in our lives.”

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The coach for Season 26 of “The Voice” has stayed actively involved with his family as it has grown. In a 2015 interview with “Today,” he humbly rated himself as “about a 7-plus” as a father, noting areas where he wants to improve.

“My relationship with my kids is more important than anything. It’s a friendship… it’s based on me being a father, a mentor, and a friend,” he said.

When asked about being a grandfather, Snoop said he planned to be a lenient one, describing himself as a “gullible, get-away-with-everything kind of grandpa.”

Recalling his first experience as a grandparent, he shared, “It’s just a spark of joy to look into his eyes and hold him. I thank my oldest son for making me a grandfather.”

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Snoop Dogg’s extended family is a big part of his life. In January 2024, he talked about his grandkids on “The Jennifer Hudson Show,” explaining how each grandchild calls him “Papa Snoop.” This name comes from a nickname his oldest grandson gave him when he was little.

Snoop said, “[My grandkids are] different ages and sizes, but I love them all the same. Actually, my oldest [grandson’s] birthday is today, so I’m on my way to his birthday party.”

He remembered how his oldest grandchild first called him “Papa Noop” because he couldn’t say “Snoop” properly at first.

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After his family grew, Snoop faced the tragic loss of one grandchild, which has deeply affected him and his family.

In September 2019, Snoop’s grandson, Kai Love, passed away just 10 days after birth. Snoop shared a heartfelt message on social media, reposting a note that read, “If you’re facing something you don’t understand: Choose to trust God. Remember all He has done for you. His ways are higher than ours. He is always good.”

The post showed Snoop’s faith during his family’s sorrow and received many supportive comments from followers.

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One user wrote, “I’m so sorry for your loss. Children are precious gifts from God, but sometimes he takes them back… sweet little Kai RIP… God bless and comfort all who love him….” Another added, “Sorry for your [loss]. God Bless=.” A third user said, “Prayers for you and your family.”

Kai’s parents, Snoop’s son Corde Broadus and his wife, Soraya Love, were heartbroken by the loss. On what would have been Kai’s fourth birthday, Soraya posted a touching tribute on Instagram, sharing her grief and newfound purpose.

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“Happy heavenly birthday to my 1st son Kai Love who passed away on 9-15-2019,” she wrote, explaining the pain of losing a child due to a heart defect. Soraya added, “…I know God used this painful time in our lives to help me reach out to others in need of faith and self-awareness.”

Soraya’s post also described how losing her son motivated her to lead a life dedicated to wellness, spirituality, and supporting the community.

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Kai’s legacy inspired Corde and Soraya to start the “Kai Heart Foundation,” which aims to spread love and healing through community support.

In a March 2024 post, Soraya shared, “We would love to partner with organizations that help heal, educate, and assist people with LOVE. This is our purpose, and we want to keep giving back to the community.”

In December 2022, Soraya explained, “I started the Kai Heart Foundation in 2019 after my son Kai passed away from a heart defect. He inspired me to help others through acts of LOVE and a healthy lifestyle.”

She expressed gratitude for the guidance she felt from Kai and her faith, inviting support from the community. “Today was magical. Love you all, and if you want to donate for the next event, let me know.”

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After experiencing both joy and sadness with the loss of baby Kai, Snoop has continued to embrace his growing family, with each grandchild bringing unique joy and purpose into his life.

Snoop first became a grandfather in January 2015 when his grandson, Zion Kalvin Broadus, was born to Corde and his then-girlfriend Jessica Kyzer.

Proud of this new role, Snoop posted a video saying, “Proud grandad. My son spank n grandson Zion!!Jah bless.” Zion, now 9 years old, is a constant reminder of the family’s growth and Snoop’s commitment to being “Papa Snoop.”

In August 2018, Snoop’s family grew again with the birth of Elleven Love Broadus, Corde’s daughter with Soraya.

Soraya celebrated Elleven’s fifth birthday in 2023 with an emotional Instagram post, writing, “HAPPY 5th BORN DAY TO MY 1st BORN E11EVEN this little Queen taught me how to be a mom when I didn’t know how to change a diaper.”

Elleven brought healing and love into Soraya’s life, adding to Snoop’s family legacy.

In March 2019, Cordoba Journey Broadus was born to Snoop’s son Cordell and his wife Phia. Now 5, Cordoba has shared special moments with Snoop, including attending a Chanel fashion show with him in May 2023.

In February 2021, Snoop welcomed another grandchild, Sky Love Broadus, who is Corde and Soraya’s third child. Shante Broadus, Snoop’s wife, posted about her excitement, saying, “I’m so happy my 5th grandbaby boy was born today .”

In March 2021, Cordell and Phia welcomed their daughter, Chateau Broadus. Shante celebrated her arrival, saying, “I Was Down Earlier But She Just Took All Of That Away  My 6th GrandBaby Girl #ChateauBroadus .”

In May 2023, Snoop introduced his youngest grandchild, Symphony Sol, on Instagram, sharing his excitement for the new addition to the family.

Through all the joy and heartache, Snoop Dogg’s love for his family shines brightly. Each grandchild not only represents a new member of the Broadus family but also a legacy of love, strength, and togetherness.

From his own children to his many grandchildren, Snoop’s commitment to family remains strong, grounding him and keeping him connected to his roots as “Papa Snoop.”

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