Devastated parents forced to pull the plug on their 13-year-old daughter after sleepover horror. They’ve now issued a warning to spare others from the same tragedy.
When Esra Haynes died, she was just 13 years old, and the reason for her tragic death is bizarre.
This young girl who was referred to as “determined, fun, cheeky and talented” by the Montrose Football Netball Club that she co-captained, got caught in a viral craze called chrominghttps://comsoftvn.com/in-order-to-pick…a-tiny-stray-dog/, which involves inhaling toxic chemicals through the mouth or nose to get high.
Esra was an athlete and lead a healthy life, racing BMX bikes with her brothers, and leading her team to a national aerobics’ championship in Queensland. But all that was taken away from her after a wrong decision she made on March 31 during a sleepover at a friend’s house.
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As she wanted to be part of the viral trend, Esra inhaled a toxic amount of aerosol deodorant and went into cardiac arrest, sustaining irreparable brain damage.
Her parents were devastated. Appearing on A Current Affair with host Ally Langdon, they spoke of the heartbreak and the fatal consequences of inhaling toxic chemicals in an attempt to prevent something similar from happening to other naive young people.
“It was just the regular routine of going to hang out with her mates,” her mom Andrea, told Langdon in the interview. Her father Paul added, “We always knew where she was and we knew who she was with.
It wasn’t anything out of the ordinary…To get this phone call at that time of night, (it) was one of the calls no parent ever wants to have to receive, and we unfortunately got that call: ‘Come and get your daughter.’”
Initially, her friends weren’t aware how serious Esra’s condition was. They only thought she was having a panic attack, not aware that their friends was dying right in front of their eyes. “But after inhaling deodorant, her body was actually starting to shut down, she was in cardiac arrest and no one at the sleepover used cardiac arrest,” Langdon explained.
When her mom arrived by Esra’s side, paramedics were trying to revive her and told Andrea that her daughter had been chroming, a word that the scared mother heard for the first time ever.
Esra was transferred to the hospital and was placed on life support, but just eight hours later, the parents were told that her brain was damaged beyond repair and that needed to make a decision to turn the life support off.
Knowing there was nothing that could be done, Andrea and Paul called relatives and family members to say their final goodbyes. “It was a very, very difficult thing to do to such a young soul. She was put onto a bed so we could lay with her. We cuddled her until the end.”
Esra’s siblings, Imogen, Seth and Charlie are have been shattered ever since their sister is gone.
“It was really devastating, devastating for everyone involved, all her friends as well,” Paul said. “It’s been the most difficult, traumatic time any parent could go through. We haven’t been sleeping, we’ve hardly been eating, we haven’t been smiling–we’re not ourselves…But it’s not just affected us, it’s the community as well.”
Following Esra’s passing, Andrea and Paul are doing all in their power to put an end to the crazy viral craze that took their daughter’s life.
Speaking to 7 News, Paul said he wished he knew of chroming when Esra was still alive, so he could have warned her of the dangers: “If we were educated and the word had been put out there, we would have had the discussion around our kitchen table for sure.
“We need to ramp it up and let these kids find out the information first-hand, and not through friends, and not through social media–then they’re given the right advice off the bat.”
Esra isn’t the first victim of chroming. Over the years, a number of young people lost their lives from the consequences of it as it can easily lead to seizures, heart attack, suffocation, sudden sniffing death, coma, and organ failure.
“We’ve got the pictures in our mind which will never be erased, you know, of what we were confronted with,” Paul told Langdon. “Our gut was ripped out.”
We are so very sorry for this family’s loss and we wish no parent ever experiences such heartbreak.
Every Day, My Nanny Took My Son to a Basement—What I Found Left Me in Shock
When my son began to seem distant and tired, I realized something was wrong. After I followed him and our nanny to a secret basement, I prepared myself for something terrible—but what I found was a surprising truth I never imagined.
I need to share this because I can’t stop crying about what happened. I felt like I was experiencing every mother’s worst nightmare. But what I discovered was something I could never have predicted—something that left me deeply shaken.
My name is Dayna, and I’m a single mom trying to balance my job and raising my eight-year-old son, Liam. I work long hours as a doctor, which is tough, but I’ve always made Liam my main focus.
He is the joy of my life—kind, caring, and a bit shy—and we’ve always had a strong bond. That was until recently.
A few weeks ago, I noticed something was off. Every day when I got home from the hospital, Liam looked exhausted. It wasn’t just regular tiredness; he seemed drained and distant.
His eyes were heavy, and he had lost his usual energy. Worse still, he looked scared. Whenever I asked him what was wrong, he would just shrug and say, “I’m fine, Mom.”
But I knew better. “Liam, are you sure? You don’t seem like yourself. Is something happening at school?”
“No, Mom. Everything’s fine.” He would try to smile, but I could tell something was wrong.
I asked Grace, our nanny, if she had noticed anything. She had been helping me out for almost a year, taking care of Liam after school while I worked.
“Oh, he’s probably just tired from school,” she said casually. “You know how kids can be—always a bit moody. Plus, I don’t let him watch too much TV, so he might be sulking about that.”
I wanted to believe her, but my worry kept growing. Liam wasn’t a moody child, and I knew when something was off. I just couldn’t figure out what it was.
I tried to dismiss it as me being paranoid, but every day, Liam seemed to withdraw more. It was like something was bothering him, and it was eating at me.
One evening, after I tucked Liam in, I found myself looking at the security camera footage. We had a couple of cameras in the house for safety, but Grace didn’t know about them. I hesitated at first, feeling guilty, but I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was wrong.
When I watched the footage, my heart sank. Every day around lunchtime, Grace would take Liam out of the house. She had told me they stayed in, but the cameras showed a different story.
They were gone for hours, and when they returned, Liam looked dirty, tired, and distant. Once, I even saw Grace wipe him down before I got home, like she was hiding something.
I watched as she put her finger to her lips and made a “shush” motion at Liam. My hands tightened around my phone. What was going on? Where was she taking him?
By the fourth day of watching this happen, I couldn’t take it anymore. I had to know the truth. I took a day off from work, telling my boss I’d be late, and parked down the street, waiting for Grace and Liam to leave.
Just as I expected, around noon, they left the house and walked down the street. I followed them from a distance, my heart racing. They turned down an alley I hadn’t seen before, and at the end was an old, run-down building.
Grace unlocked a rusty door, and they both disappeared inside.
I hesitated for a moment, fear gnawing at me. But I had to find out what was going on. I crept closer, my hands shaking as I pulled out my phone and hit record. The door creaked open slightly, and I slipped inside, trying to be quiet.
The air was damp and smelled old. I saw stairs leading down to what looked like a basement, and my stomach twisted. What was Grace doing with my son down here?
I waited a few minutes, then crept closer. The door was slightly open, so I slipped inside, barely breathing. The place smelled musty, and I could hear muffled voices from below. I quietly walked down the dusty stairs.
And then…I froze.
When I reached the bottom of the stairs, my heart pounded so hard I thought it might burst. But what I found wasn’t what I expected.
The basement that I thought would be cold and scary was bright and cheerful. The walls were painted a soft green—my favorite color.
I blinked, trying to understand what I was seeing. Along the walls were shelves filled with fabric, thread, buttons, and ribbons, all neatly organized. There was a small wooden desk covered with sewing patterns.
“What…?” I breathed, unable to find the words.
I hadn’t seen Liam yet, but when I looked up, there he was, standing next to a big cardboard box. His eyes widened when he saw me.
“Mom!” he gasped, frozen in shock.
Grace, who had been folding fabric at the desk, dropped what she was holding and stared at me, just as surprised. For a moment, none of us spoke. I couldn’t make sense of what was happening. All my fear and suspicion melted into confusion.
“What is this?” I stammered, my voice shaky. “What’s going on here?”
Liam looked nervously at Grace, then back at me, biting his lip like he always did when he was anxious. He took a small step forward. “I…I was trying to surprise you, Mom.”
“Surprise me?” I repeated, looking around. None of this made sense. “Why—what is all this?”
Liam shifted his weight, his small hands clasped in front of him. “I found your old diary, the one from when you were a kid,” he said softly.
“You wrote in there about how you wanted to be a seamstress… how you wanted to design clothes and have your own brand.”
I felt a sudden tightness in my chest. That diary. I hadn’t thought about it in years. I could barely remember writing in it or the dreams I had shared.
Liam continued, his voice quieter. “But you said your parents wanted you to be a doctor instead, and it made you sad.”
My breath caught. I had buried those feelings so deep that I almost forgot they ever existed. And here was my son, reminding me of a dream I had long given up.
Liam’s eyes filled with worry as he looked at me. “I just—I just wanted to make you happy, Mom.” His voice cracked a little. “So, I asked Grace if she could help me build you a place to sew. We’ve been coming here after school every day to work on it.”
I stared at him, my heart full but aching. “Liam…” I whispered, barely able to speak.
“We saved up,” he added quickly, pointing to the big cardboard box. “We got you something special.”
I looked at Grace, who stood beside him, her hands clasped together. She smiled, a little shyly, but there was warmth in her eyes.
“He used all the money he saved from birthdays,” she explained softly. “We found a thrift store with a sewing machine in great condition. It turned into a little project for us.”
A sewing machine? My heart felt like it might burst. I slowly sank to my knees, my hands shaking. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing.
“You did all this for me?” I whispered, looking up at Liam. Tears fell down my cheeks.
Liam’s eyes filled with worry. “Mom, are you okay?”
I couldn’t speak. I could only nod. He rushed to me, wrapping his little arms around my neck and holding me tight. I hugged him back fiercely, my tears flowing freely now. My sweet boy. My loving boy.
Grace walked over and quietly lifted the cardboard box. Underneath was a shiny, modern sewing machine. I gasped, my hand flying to my mouth. It wasn’t just some old thing—it was practically brand new.
“We wanted to surprise you, but I guess we didn’t plan on you finding out like this,” Grace said with a soft laugh.
Liam pulled back slightly, looking into my eyes. “I just wanted to make your dreams come true, Mom,” he whispered. “Like you always do with mine.”
His words washed over me, and I broke down, crying harder than I had in years. Not out of sadness, but out of pure love and gratitude.
I had thought that part of my life was over, that I had missed my chance. But here was my son, this little boy with a heart bigger than I ever realized, bringing that dream back to life for me.
“I don’t know what to say,” I whispered through my tears. “Liam, you’ve given me more than I could ever ask for.”
Liam smiled, his own eyes shiny with tears. “I just want you to be happy, Mom.”
I pulled him into my arms again, holding him close as if I could keep this moment forever. The room, once an old forgotten basement, was now filled with light, hope, and love.
And all because my little boy believed in me, even when I had stopped believing in myself.
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