Their marriage began without romance, nearly unraveled from betrayal, and was saved by a cross-country move. After 73 years together, William Daniels and Bonnie Bartlett are still each other’s greatest love story.
William Daniels and Bonnie Bartlett’s relationship has defied the odds in an industry known for breakups. However, from their early days as ambitious students to being beloved fixtures in American pop culture, their journey has been anything but picture-perfect.
Bonnie Bartlett and William Daniels celebrating their win at the Emmy Awards in Pasadena, California, on September 21, 1986. | Source: Getty Images
Infidelity and the heartbreak of losing a child tested their relationship in ways that could have easily broken it. And yet, they held on. Here’s a look inside their extraordinary relationship and a love story that has endured for over seven decades.
William Daniels and Bonnie Bartlett sharing a kiss backstage at the Emmy Awards on September 21, 1986, in Pasadena, California. | Source: Getty Images
How a College Audition Sparked a Lifelong Love
Daniels and Bartlett have built a legacy in Hollywood that spans decades. He is best known for his roles as George Feeny in “Boy Meets World,” Dr. Craig in “St. Elsewhere,” and the voice of KITT in “Knight Rider.”
Bartlett, an acclaimed actress in her own right, earned accolades for her performances in shows like “St. Elsewhere” and “Little House on the Prairie.” However, their story began long before their fame.
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The two first crossed paths at Northwestern University, where they studied acting. Daniels vividly recalled their first meeting. In a class where the teacher was casting a play, he remembered watching what he described as “dreadful” auditions.
Despite their awkward but charming first exchange, their connection quickly grew.
William Daniels and Bonnie Bartlett photographed at Sardi’s Restaurant in New York on April 13, 1986. | Source: Getty Images
Then, a voice from the back of the room that sounded like an actress caught his attention. He turned around and recalled seeing “this lovely blonde.”
After class, Daniels waited by the door for Bartlett. “I said, ‘How about a cup of coffee?’ And she said, ‘You’re too short.’ I said, ‘C’mon, have a cup of coffee.’ She said, ‘OK,'” he shared.
William Daniels and Bonnie Bartlett at the Jewish National Fund Annual Tree of Life Awards on December 11, 1986, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
Unbeknownst to Daniels at the time, Bartlett had already taken notice of him. “Turns out she heard I had been on Broadway,” he explained. “She had been following me around campus, I didn’t even know it.” Bartlett responded to his recollection, saying:
“True. I didn’t want to [be] a stalker. I didn’t want to interfere with his life and I never thought for a minute he’d be interested in me. So when I said, ‘You’re too short,’ I thought ‘Oh no, we’re wrong. You don’t want me.'”
William Daniels and Bonnie Bartlett filming “St. Elsewhere” in 1987. | Source: Getty Images
Despite their awkward but charming first exchange, their connection quickly grew. They discovered a shared passion for acting and mutual respect for their talent and ambition. “We both have the same goals. We both liked acting,” Bartlett said.
William Daniels and Bonnie Bartlett of “St. Elsewhere” photographed in 1987. | Source: Getty Images
“We both liked when the other one worked,” she continued. Daniels echoed her sentiment, adding, “There was never any jealousy between the two of us. We were happy when the other one was working.” That early understanding would become the foundation of a marriage that endured many trials and triumphs.
Bonnie Bartlett and William Daniels on the set of “St. Elsewhere” circa 1987. | Source: Getty Images
Weathering the Storm
Though Daniels and Bartlett’s marriage ultimately stood the test of time, its early years were marked by instability, painful betrayals, and emotional reckoning.
“That I’d spend my life with him, that never occurred to me. There was no plan. We were actors and trying to get work, and we liked being together,” Bartlett confessed.
Bonnie Bartlett and William Daniels at the NBC Affiliates Party on June 2, 1987, at Century Plaza Hotel in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
The actress revealed in her memoir “Middle of the Rainbow” that she had an affair that lasted a few months in 1959.
Their decision to marry wasn’t rooted in romance and practicality. “And when we got married, I thought we just got married so that we could have sex really,” the actress shared.
Bonnie Bartlett and William Daniels at the “La Boheme” opening night performance on September 9, 1987, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
“We got married for the expediency of it. This was not a romantic thing. It was probably as much mental and sexual. It was just a meeting of the minds and a meeting of the bodies,” she added.
After marrying in 1951, Daniels credited his wife’s presence as vital to his success in school, admitting, “If I hadn’t met Bonnie, I don’t think I would have gotten through.”
Bonnie Bartlett and William Daniels at the 39th Annual Primetime Emmy Awards on September 20, 1987, at Pasadena Civic Auditorium in California. | Source: Getty Images
However, the couple faced years of turmoil while living in New York. During that time, both were unfaithful. “I guess it was a little bit of an open marriage at first, but that was very painful. That didn’t work well. And it was a time when people were doing that.” Bartlett revealed.
She added, “It was at a time in New York when there was a lot of sex and a lot of people doing all kinds of things, you know — very free. But I don’t know if there was a lack of commitment a little bit, and that’s not good. So there was a lot of pain connected with any transgression, with any extramarital thing.”
William Daniels and Bonnie Bartlett at the cocktail party to celebrate the 10th anniversary of Roe vs. Wade on January 22, 1989, in Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images
The actress revealed in her memoir “Middle of the Rainbow” that she had an affair that lasted a few months in 1959. However, Daniels’ affair with a New York-based producer in the early 1970s still left her wrecked. Despite the heartache, they stayed together.
Bartlett admitted, “I was always the one that would say to Bill, ‘I don’t think I want to be married to you anymore.’ And he’d say, ‘Oh, come on. You’re smitten with me. You’ve always been crazy about me.’ Every time I’ve questioned the relationship, he doesn’t take it seriously.”
Bonnie Bartlett and William Daniels circa 1989. | Source: Getty Images
Sadly, their struggles went beyond infidelity, as they also suffered a devastating loss.
Still, the emotional weight of their early years was undeniable. “It was very painful for the both of us. But it was something we had to go through because we never went through it. When we got together I was 18,” Bartlett said.
Bonnie Bartlett and William Daniels at the “Rambling Rose” premiere on September 19, 1991, at Mann National Theatre in Westwood, California. | Source: Getty Images
“Bill was my first boyfriend…We just had to go through all that and still, we loved each other very much and always have. [We] have always been there for each other,” she continued.
“That’s what matters — if you’re there for the person and help [them] along in a relationship, [have] respect for them and what they’re doing and being there for them…[You have to] be together on the other side,” the actress added.
Bonnie Bartlett and William Daniels before greeting fans at Fraunces Tavern Museum on July 3, 2015, in New York. | Source: Getty Images
Sadly, their struggles went beyond infidelity, as they also suffered the devastating loss of one of their sons. That tragedy and the emotional toll of their personal lives created a storm that might have ended many other relationships. But it didn’t end theirs.
Instead, the couple, who went on to welcome two boys, moved to Hollywood — and that shift marked a turning point. “Hollywood was really the saving grace for our marriage,” Bartlett explained.
She added, “Because once we got to Hollywood and we were here and living like a normal family and having weekends at home with our kids and doing things, it was [a] totally different story. Nobody wanted anything more than that.”
However, looking back years later, the actress saw those difficult times as necessary. “So much happens and you live — the good things, you hurt each other. We’ve hurt each other but you recover and you grow and you change and you adapt,” she revealed.
“You have to be able to adapt to the other person. You have to think of them first. It doesn’t happen overnight. It took us years to get to a real companionship marriage,” the Hollywood star added.
Lasting Love
After decades of trials, triumphs, and transformation, Daniels and Bartlett have emerged with an unshaken bond.
Reflecting on a marriage of over seven decades, the actress admitted, “I never expected it to be a marvelous, wonderful thing. I had no anticipation of that at all, and it just happened.”
My Best Friend Couldn’t Watch Our Prom Tape with Me and My Boyfriend But When I Saw What He Did, Everything Clicked — Story of the Day
Pam thought the reunion of high school friends would be a simple trip down memory lane. But when an old prom tape emerged her curiosity deepened. As the tape began to play, the grainy footage revealed something that left Pam questioning everything she thought she knew about those close to her.
Caleb and I stood at the front door, the crisp evening air brushing against my face.
My heart thudded with a mix of excitement and nervousness. I glanced at Caleb, whose expression screamed indifference.
His hands were stuffed into his jacket pockets, and his shoulders slouched like he’d rather be anywhere else.
“You could at least pretend to be excited,” I said, my voice tinged with irritation.
“Pam, not now,” Caleb muttered, rolling his eyes. “Can we not start this here? Just give me a couple of hours without the drama, okay?”
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“Drama? Seriously?” I shot back, crossing my arms.
“I’m not asking for much. I just want you to care about something that’s important to me.”
“There you go again,” he sighed heavily.
“Look, I’m here, aren’t I? I could’ve been at the pub with the guys, but I came. That should count for something.”
“If hanging out at the pub means more to you than our little high school reunion, you might as well go,” I snapped, my voice sharper than I intended.
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“School reunion? There would only be three of us!” Caleb retorted, his frustration bubbling over. “You always twist my words. It’s like you don’t even try to understand me.”
Before I could respond, the door creaked open, revealing Connor, his face lighting up with a warm smile.
“Pam! Caleb! You made it!” he said, his voice full of genuine enthusiasm. “Sorry for the delay. You know, last-minute prep.”
“Connor!” I beamed, wrapping him in a friendly hug. I reached into the bag I was holding and pulled out the cake I’d spent the afternoon baking.
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“Look, I brought a cake.”
Connor’s eyebrows shot up in surprise.
“Oh wow! You baked this? That’s amazing, Pam!”
“Yep,” I said, feeling shy under his admiration. “It’s a special occasion.”
“Twenty years since we graduated… Crazy how time flies,” Connor said, examining the cake with a grin.
“Yeah, yeah. She baked a cake. Big deal,” Caleb interrupted with a groan.
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“Can we go inside now? I’m freezing out here.”
Connor chuckled, stepping aside. “Of course, come on in.” As I walked past, Connor gave me an encouraging smile, a silent but comforting acknowledgment.
Connor had always been my best friend, the kind of person who got me without needing explanations.
He had a way of making me feel seen, even when others didn’t.
As Caleb trudged ahead, his disinterest almost tangible, I couldn’t help but notice the contrast between the two.
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Connor led us to the living room, his usual warm demeanor setting a welcoming tone.
Caleb, however, made a beeline for the couch, grabbed the remote, and started flipping through channels like he was in his own living room.
I stood there for a moment, hands on my hips, watching him settle on a sports network.
“Caleb, seriously?” I said, my voice laced with frustration.
“Can’t you watch that game later?”
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He didn’t respond, his eyes glued to the screen as if my words were background noise. It was one of his go-to moves—pretend I wasn’t upset, and eventually, I’d let it go. Annoyingly, it often worked.
Sighing, I let my attention wander to an open cabinet in the corner of the room.
Inside was a box overflowing with old items—photos, trinkets, and memories that seemed to be calling my name.
On top was a photo album. My curiosity got the better of me, and I knelt to pull it out.
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Flipping through the pages, I felt a rush of nostalgia.
The photos captured moments from our high school days—laughing faces, awkward hairstyles, and the kind of carefree energy I hadn’t felt in years.
A bittersweet smile tugged at my lips, and I could feel tears threatening to form.
“Caleb, come here!” I called out, holding up a photo. “It’s us on that school trip! Remember?”
“Can you not? You’re interrupting,” Caleb said flatly, still glued to the TV.
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Before I could snap back, Connor walked in carrying plates of cake. His eyes landed on the album in my hands, and his face lit up.
“You found the old photos,” he said, setting the plates down.
“My mom loved taking pictures. She was convinced we’d thank her someday.”
He straightened his posture and mimicked a stern voice.
“‘You’ll thank me when you’re older!’ she’d always say.”
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I laughed. “She sounds like she was a gem.”
As I flipped to another page, something caught my eye—a VHS tape sitting in the box beneath the album. Its label, scrawled in marker, read “PROM.”
“You have prom footage?” I asked, holding up the tape.
Connor hesitated. “Oh, that? It’s ancient. Probably doesn’t even work anymore. Besides, who has a VCR these days?”
“Right there,” I said, pointing to the dusty player next to the box.
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Connor sighed, his shoulders slumping slightly. “I forgot that was even there…”
“Caleb, we need the TV!” I called over my shoulder.
Caleb didn’t even glance up. “Touch this TV, and I’ll snap that tape in half,” he said, his tone low and firm.
“Fine!” I huffed, turning to Connor with determination. “You have a TV in your room, right? Let’s go.”
Connor looked uneasy, but he nodded, leading the way.
The promise of seeing that prom footage ignited a spark of excitement in me, even if Caleb couldn’t care less. Something told me this tape held more than just old memories—it held answers.
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I rushed into Connor’s bedroom clutching the VHS tape like it was a treasure chest.
My heart was racing, not just from excitement but from a strange mix of nostalgia and curiosity. Connor followed behind me, looking as if he’d rather be anywhere else.
“I’m telling you, Pam, this is a bad idea,” he said, rubbing the back of his neck. His unease was written all over his face.
“Bad idea?” I repeated, scoffing as I crouched to plug the VCR into the small TV in his room.
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“Connor, this is the best idea I’ve had all night. Come on, don’t you want to relive prom? This is history, our history.”
Connor sighed heavily, crossing his arms. “I just think some things are better left in the past.”
“Not this,” I insisted, sliding the tape into the player. “This is gold. Ready? Here we go!”
As the tape whirred to life, the screen filled with the grainy, slightly distorted image of Connor’s mom holding a camcorder. Her voice came through loud and clear, cheerful and commanding.
“Connor, smile! It’s prom night!” she chirped from behind the camera.
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Young Connor appeared on the screen, a boy trying to fit into a man’s suit.
His hair was slicked back with too much gel, and his bright red tie was slightly crooked. He looked like he wanted to disappear.
“Mom, stop filming,” he groaned, shifting uncomfortably under her gaze.
“You’ll thank me when you’re older!” she shot back with a chuckle.
I burst out laughing. “Wow, she really said that! You weren’t kidding.”
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Connor didn’t share my amusement. “Pam, I’m serious. Let’s just stop this.”
Ignoring him, I leaned closer to the screen as the tape transitioned to a car ride. The camera jostled slightly, showing the interior of the vehicle and Connor in the passenger seat.
“Mom! Stop the car! Pull over!” young Connor suddenly shouted.
“What’s wrong?” his mom asked, the camera swinging to catch his panicked expression.
“It’s Pam,” he said, pointing out the window. “She’s crying.”
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The camera panned to a younger version of me, sitting on the porch of my house, my face buried in my hands. I remembered that night all too well.
Caleb had been late, and I’d convinced myself he wasn’t coming. I was heartbroken, ready to skip prom entirely.
“I’ll go ask her to prom, I’m ready to tell her about my feelings,” Connor said softly.
His mom’s voice was full of warmth. “My little prince. Go ahead.”
The footage showed Connor stepping out of the car, straightening his tie as he approached. But before he could reach me, another car pulled up.
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Caleb stepped out, his dad giving him a light shove to hurry him along.
I looked up, my tear-streaked face breaking into a radiant smile when I saw Caleb. Without hesitation, I ran to him, leaving Connor standing alone in the driveway.
The camera caught every moment—my joy, Caleb’s smug grin, and Connor’s heart sinking as he watched from afar.
I hit the pause button, my hand trembling. “Connor… You were going to ask me to prom?.. Even more, you were going to tell me that you loved me..”
He didn’t meet my eyes. “It doesn’t matter now, Pam. It never did.”
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“But all these years…” My voice cracked. “You cared about me?”
Connor finally looked at me, his expression pained but resolute.
“Of course I did. But you were happy with Caleb, and that’s what mattered. That’s all that ever mattered.”
Tears streamed down my face as I tried to process what I’d just seen and heard. “Why didn’t you tell me?”
Connor shook his head, giving me a sad smile. “Because you were already where you wanted to be. And I couldn’t ruin that.”
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The room felt heavy with unspoken words. I didn’t know what to say, and for once, Connor didn’t fill the silence.
We both stared at the frozen image on the screen, young Connor standing alone in the shadows while I walked away, blissfully unaware.
We returned to the living room, where Caleb was still glued to the TV, oblivious to everything. But something inside me had shifted.
I sat next to Connor, stealing glances at him as he pretended everything was fine. The memory of that night, of his quiet heartbreak, lingered in my mind.
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“Connor,” I whispered. “You’ve always been there for me. I see that now. You’ve always been more than a friend, haven’t you?”
“Pam, please,” he said, his voice breaking. “Let it go.”
I bit my lip, unsure of what to do. My heart was torn between the familiarity of Caleb and the quiet, unwavering love Connor had always shown me.
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“Maybe in another life,” I said softly.
“Maybe,” Connor replied, his smile bittersweet.
That night, I lay awake, wondering what could’ve been. For the first time, I questioned everything I thought I knew about love—and what it meant to be truly seen.
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