Smaller houses and apartments don’t stop many Japanese couples from sleeping in different beds or even rooms. This is not some kind of an intimate issue or problem with the relationship, but something that they believe is good for them.
We at Bright Side found out why married couples in Japan choose to sleep separately, and we really like their reasons.
They have different sleep schedules.
The first thing that makes Japanese couples decide to go to bed separately is different work schedules. Waking up your significant other just because you got home late from work or have to leave early won’t result in good quality rest for them. This is why spending the night in a different room makes sense. This will give them both an undisturbed and healthier sleep.
Babies sleep with their mothers.
Japanese mothers sleep with their children and this is considered very important, so the father needs to decide if he wants to share the same bed or go to a different room. Even science has proven that co-sleeping can help parents and children get a more restful sleep. It helps the child to maintain a stable temperature and heart rate (which is really critical in infancy) and at the same time, it decreases the chance of sudden infant death syndrome. Also, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, becoming independent faster, and doing great in school.
For them, sleeping separately means peace.
While many couples who start to sleep alone think that divorce is at their door, the Japanese see it differently. They value their sleep a lot and they don’t want to be disturbed while sleeping. This means that they don’t need and don’t like to put up with snoring, restless sleep, kicking, etc. Even though some don’t have the opportunity to sleep in different rooms, they still wish they could get their beauty sleep.
Couples have a history of sleeping separately.
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Futons are filled with cotton, which provides support and comfort. In the past, only single sized ones were used as beds. So, even if you wanted to cuddle up with your loved one, you would have ended up between the sheets, on the cold floor, and you wouldn’t feel comfortable. Today there are families that still use this type of bedding, especially because it doesn’t take up a lot of space and it is easy to store.
Do you sleep separately from your partner? Do you think this type of practice might be even better for your relationship?
Hollywood Legend Clint Eastwood’s Secret Life Finally Revealed
Clint Eastwood, a legendary movie star and director known for his strong and masculine image, has thrilled audiences for decades. But at 89, he shared a personal story he had kept secret for nearly sixty years. This secret links him to one of his most famous movies and gives insight into his fascinating life.
Early Life and Challenges
Born in 1930 during the Great Depression, Clint Eastwood grew up facing many hardships. His family moved often, and his father worked as a steelworker. Despite these struggles, Eastwood stood out for his tall height of 6 feet 4 inches and earned the nickname “Samson” from an early age.
A Scary Experience
Before he became famous, Clint Eastwood worked as a lifeguard in Seattle after finishing high school. But an incredible and little-known event happened when he was only 21. Eastwood was on a World War II Navy plane that crashed into the Pacific Ocean. Stranded in the water, he swam for miles toward the shore, unsure if he would make it. Looking back on that day, he later said, “I remember thinking, ‘Well, 21 is not as long as a person wants to live.’”
Inspiration from Real Life
This scary event had a lasting effect on Eastwood’s career. When he became a director, he drew from his own experience to create the 2016 film *Sully: Miracle on the Hudson*, which starred Tom Hanks. The movie tells the true story of the emergency landing of US Airways Flight 1549 on the Hudson River in 2009, where all 155 people survived.
The Story of Captain Sully
While the amazing landing impressed everyone, Eastwood was also deeply moved by what happened afterward and by Captain Chesley “Sully” Sullenberger’s character. Sully’s ability to stay calm, make quick decisions, and solve problems without panicking left a big impression on Eastwood. The contrast between Sully’s brave actions and the investigators’ later questioning of his decisions made it a powerful story for film.
A Living Legend
Clint Eastwood’s long and impressive career has made him a lasting icon in the film world. Even at 89, he keeps working and surprising audiences with his skill and passion, showing that true talent has no age limits.
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