Smaller houses and apartments don’t stop many Japanese couples from sleeping in different beds or even rooms. This is not some kind of an intimate issue or problem with the relationship, but something that they believe is good for them.
We at Bright Side found out why married couples in Japan choose to sleep separately, and we really like their reasons.
They have different sleep schedules.
The first thing that makes Japanese couples decide to go to bed separately is different work schedules. Waking up your significant other just because you got home late from work or have to leave early won’t result in good quality rest for them. This is why spending the night in a different room makes sense. This will give them both an undisturbed and healthier sleep.
Babies sleep with their mothers.
Japanese mothers sleep with their children and this is considered very important, so the father needs to decide if he wants to share the same bed or go to a different room. Even science has proven that co-sleeping can help parents and children get a more restful sleep. It helps the child to maintain a stable temperature and heart rate (which is really critical in infancy) and at the same time, it decreases the chance of sudden infant death syndrome. Also, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, becoming independent faster, and doing great in school.
For them, sleeping separately means peace.
While many couples who start to sleep alone think that divorce is at their door, the Japanese see it differently. They value their sleep a lot and they don’t want to be disturbed while sleeping. This means that they don’t need and don’t like to put up with snoring, restless sleep, kicking, etc. Even though some don’t have the opportunity to sleep in different rooms, they still wish they could get their beauty sleep.
Couples have a history of sleeping separately.
Futons are filled with cotton, which provides support and comfort. In the past, only single sized ones were used as beds. So, even if you wanted to cuddle up with your loved one, you would have ended up between the sheets, on the cold floor, and you wouldn’t feel comfortable. Today there are families that still use this type of bedding, especially because it doesn’t take up a lot of space and it is easy to store.
Do you sleep separately from your partner? Do you think this type of practice might be even better for your relationship?
Strange small “room” in my ancient barn’s top
The historical relationship between barn owls and farmers constituted a vital aspect of rural livelihoods.
Farmers, recognizing the barn owls’ prowess in pest control, ingeniously crafted nest boxes within their barns, merging age-old skills with ecological wisdom.
This ancient practice reflected the farmers’ deep reverence for nature’s equilibrium, showcasing their willingness to coexist with these predators long before modern conservation efforts took root.
Utilizing locally-sourced materials like straw and wood, farmers meticulously fashioned these nests, prioritizing the safety and comfort of the owls by ensuring adequate ventilation and drainage in the box design.
Strategically positioned in tranquil corners, rafters, and lofts of the barn, these nesting compartments harmonized farm activities with the owls’ nesting needs.
The tradition of constructing barn owl nest boxes has transcended generations, evolving into a cherished family legacy.
Beyond mere pest control, it symbolized a commitment to eco-conscious farming and the enduring partnership between humans and the natural world.
Preserving this agricultural heritage underscores the enduring collaboration between humanity and the environment.
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